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October 2007 Archives
Bra Fitting Basics and Blunders!By Allison M. Meyers Are you one of the reported 9 out of 10 women who are wearing the wrong sized bra? The single most important step to creating your most flattering wardrobe is to begin with undergarments that achieve a flawless fit. Most women fall down on the job when it comes to choosing the right bra. Because no one “sees” it, they believe that no one will notice that they’re still wearing their nursing bra ... or that they are wearing their sports bra ... or the bra that they purchased when they were 10 pounds lighter... or that old one that is stretched, tattered and torn... Guess what, ladies? We see it, but in an entirely different way. We see it as poor posture. We see it as unneeded weight in your belly. We see it as a lack of confidence. I see it as the perfect opportunity to instantly improve your figure. The most useful aspect of purchasing a great–fitting bra is that the lift and support will create the appearance of a slimmer mid-section. When bras become stretched out or lack support, the “sag” factor causes tops to cling to any minor bulge in your belly. The extra support helps shirts to “skim over” versus “cling to” parts of our midsections that women generally want to conceal. To achieve the perfect fit, I highly recommend that you go to an experienced bra fitter. The bra-fitting expert will take your measurements, recommend your current cup and band size, and bring you some designs that she feels would be a good fit. A good bra–fitting expert fully understands her inventory and the slight differences between the designers and models. My recent personal experience in a mass-market mall lingerie store was not a pleasant one. I was incorrectly fitted and walked out after spending $50 on a 38D (I’m usually about a 36B) that could fit two ham steaks in addition to my breasts. I should have listened to my gut. Instead, I have two cups taking up too much room in my underwear drawer.
Are you wearing the best bra for you? Do you notice: • Significant “cutting” and leaving marks for hours at the end of the day? • The band riding up in the back? • Stretched–out or wrinkling cups? • The front center (between your cups) is not laying flat against your skin? • Wires that poke into you? • Gaps between breast and cup? • The dreaded “Quadrupaboob”—appearing to have four breasts instead of two when wearing a fitted shirt? A great-fitting, skin-toned bra is one of Seemless’ 15 Wardrobe Essentials. Investing a bit of time and money for a great-fitting, high–quality basic will be well worth the use and confidence you’ll get in return! Allison M. Meyers is owner of Seemless Clothing Consulting. Seemless’ private and corporate workshops and personal consultations help local women build their most FASHIONABLE, FUNCTIONAL and ALWAYS FLATTERING wardrobe! Her “Slim Silhouette” and wardrobing tips continue to be featured on WNYT Ch. 13 News. For more information on Seemless’ services, log onto www.flatterybattery.com or call 469.1631. Is it time for your fitting? Seemless Complimentary Bra Fitting Clinic With local area expert, Madame Pirie Famise! Albany, NY – RSVP required • November 19, 2007 Details at www.flatterybattery.com/schedule
5 tips to dressing slimmer1. Properly fitting undergarments! There should be no bunching or bulging! Remember, underwear is the “foundation” of your outfit. You can have the best–fitting outfit that looks terrible due to ill-fitting undergarments
2. Dark colors help mask imperfections. This does not necessarily mean that you have to wear black from top to bottom every day! Introduce dark colors to the parts of your body that you want to conceal. Use bold patterns and colors to frame your face or introduce these elements to the parts of your body that you want to show off!
3. Mid-rise is the most flattering rise. Not only are high-waisted pants known as “MOM” jeans, but the extra fabric creates the illusion of bigger abdomens and backsides. Super-low rises not only reveal too much when we sit, but often create “muffin tops”, or overflow in your mid-section. Not a good look, even for teenagers.
4. Avoid hems that hit mid-calf. They not only look “dowdy” but they also make your legs look heavier and shorter than they are. Introduce hemlines around your knee area or ankle area (the two slimmest parts of your leg) for your longest and leanest look.
5. Think outside of the BOX. Avoid boxy blazers, cardigans, and jackets. Always look for seams on the fronts and backs of your jackets. These seams help to create a waist on those who don’t have waist definition and show off the waist of those who do! —Allison M. Meyers Save me Seemless!I am a working professional who has just begun to experience the unfortunate bodily changes brought on by menopause. My already-tired wardrobe looks even worse with all of these new bags and bulges! I feel as if everything has fallen, specifically to my hips and belly. What new pieces can I invest in that will energize and flatter my currently boring and ill-fitting wardrobe? Sincerely, Corporate Cathy
Dear Corporate Cathy, All I have to hear is the term “falling” and I know that it’s time for a bra fitting. Ninety percent of women wear the wrong size bra and are not optimizing their shape! Schedule a bra fitting IMMEDIATELY with your local department or lingerie store. While getting “uplifted,” pick up some new underwear that doesn’t cut into you. Look for a giving micro-fiber fabric with minimal seams and a design that fully covers your backside. This combination of factors will give you immunity from the dreaded VPL (Visible Panty Line.)
If you haven’t discovered the magic power of Spanx¨, it’s time to do so! Spanx¨ are an extensive line of body shapers that help to minimize any “bags or bulges” you may be experiencing. They come in a variety of designs and support levels designed to target the women’s common “problem” areas on her top or bottom half. They are sold in several shops locally or online at sites such as Spanx.com or QVC.com. You’ll be AMAZED at the transformation!
Now that your undergarments fit you properly, re-evaluate your professional wardrobe. Do your blazers and jackets create “good” curves or do they look too boxy? Look for blazers that have a combination of seams in the front and back, shoulders that align with yours, and fairly skinny armholes. The blazer or jacket should hit about mid-hip bone. Are your pants tapered and pleated, making you look like an upside down pear? Look for a long, flowing leg, straight from thigh to floor. Pants with a flat front that hit mid-rise are generally the most flattering. Use camisoles, scarves and fun accessories to bring some life into the outfit and the office! Warning: you may be the topic of water cooler gossip.
Enjoy the “New You!” Sincerely, Save me Seemless!
I am a “stay-at-home” mother of three and am continuously running from school drop-off, to baseball pick-up to PTA meetings–you get the picture! Can you recommend some essentials to have in my wardrobe that will be very comfortable, look great on me, and make me look very “put together” in my not-so-organized life? Sincerely, “Stay-at-Home” Sally
Dear Stay-at-Home Sally, And who said stay-at-home Moms actually get a chance to stay home? I can see why you need to be comfortable! The first thing you need to find is a great pair of jeans. Look for a straight leg and a medium-rise (height of waist) for the most flattering fit. Try to find a heavier jean with a bit of stretch so that you can move with your crazy lifestyle! Remember, dark–washed jeans not only make you look slimmer, but they appear much less casual than their faded counter-part.
Pair these jeans with a tailored, crisp, oxford shirt, also with a little stretch, if possible. Be sure that the shirt has a tailored waist that comes in a bit in the torso, giving you a slimmer look. There are several non-iron oxfords on the market now in a variety of price ranges that truly eliminate the need for ironing. A great alternative is a fitted tee shirt or turtleneck with a stretch corduroy blazer thrown on top. A tailored tan, black or brown corduroy blazer is a great wardrobe investment and always dresses up a pair of jeans!
Always remember that sneakers introduce a very casual look. Invest in a pair of comfortable black, tan or brown loafers with an inch or two of a thick, stacked heel. There are many shoe manufacturers that provide attractive designs for women who are on their feet all day. Don’t underestimate the power of a shoe insert! They can be found in shoe stores, drug stores and supermarkets, and can make even the most uncomfortable shoes “a Mom’s walk in the clouds!”
Good Luck, Sally! Sincerely, Save me Seemless!
Allison M. Meyers is owner of Seemless Clothing Consulting. Seemless’ private and corporate workshops and personal consultations help local women build their most FASHIONABLE, FUNCTIONAL and ALWAYS FLATTERING wardrobe! Her “Slim Silhouette” and wardrobing tips continue to be featured on WNYT Ch. 13 News. For more information on Seemless’ services, log onto www.flatterybattery.com or call 469.1631. Are you ready to change your life?Feel like there is something missing from your life? Do you ever hear yourself saying, “If only I could (make that change, loose ten pounds, had more time/money),” or “If my (spouse, child, parent, friend) would only ‘blank,’ then I’d be happy?”
For Jane Freres, it wasn’t so much an “if only” or something that was missing, but the struggle to get through a major transition period in her life. After going through a difficult divorce, she had to figure out who she was, what she wanted in life and how to be her own person.
“I spent a lot of my life working hard to take care of others, but when my kids went away to college and my marriage came to an end, I didn’t know how to take care of myself,” she says. Freres tried working with a therapist, but that didn’t improve her situation, nor did talking to other people change the way she was feeling. Then, one day, a close friend returned home from “The Mountain Experience” and convinced her it was something she should try. “It really transformed my life,” says Freres.
The Mountain Experience, offered by The Garden Company, based in Sandpoint, Idaho, is a unique personal growth program that, over the course of five days, teaches people how to overcome the obstacles that are holding them back. The program was created 20 years ago and is taught by Kyle Mercer and Janice Lindgren, who are constantly refining the techniques and tools of the original process.
“The people who come to The Garden Company have an awareness that there is something in their lives that they would like to change. They are intent on finding a way to make that happen. Our knowledge, care and experience provide clients with the best-known tools to make it possible,” says Mercer.
Here’s how the process works: days one and two of the Mountain Experience are the self-discovery phase, during which you will get a clear and accurate picture of your current life, identifying what’s working and what’s not working. Exercises clarify if and how you are hard on yourself. You expose areas where you are not giving yourself choices, which creates a trapped, frustrated feeling. You begin to understand what’s behind difficulties in your most important relationships, and how a shift in awareness can create a more loving and fulfilling connection.
Days three and four are dedicated to learning and practicing the art of letting go of emotional baggage. When we let go of the persistent, heavy emotion from the past, which creates unhealthy patterns in our lives, we experience freedom and possibility. Letting go is a skill you will be able to use repeatedly, retain for a lifetime and teach to young children.
Day five is devoted to showing you how to take what you’ve learned and integrate it into your life, preparing you for your return home. You learn specific tools for making decisions easily, communicating effectively, leading in your career, deepening relationships and engaging in life with energy, awareness and intent.
“There are a lot of different programs that talk about personal transformation and motivation,” Mercer says. “Our effectiveness is what sets us apart. We’re unique in our capacity to teach people how to make lasting change.”
It wasn’t a personal problem that brought Dr. Michael Feldman, a dentist from Hewlett, N.Y., to the Mountain Experience, but his sense of curiosity. “I was taking a consulting course several years ago and was very intrigued by what one of the speakers, Janice Lindgren of the Garden Company had to say: ‘Some days you wake up and know it will be a bad day. Others, you wake up and know it will be a good day. How would you like to have more good days?’ That really hit home for me,” says Dr. Feldman.
So, he signed up for the course and came away with a better strategy for coping with stress, which used to run rampant in his life. “The Mountain Experience was instrumental in helping me better understand and accept myself, friends, family and coworkers, which in turn helped me create a process for eliminating the cause of stress,” he says. “Now, I know how to step back and look at things from a different perspective and I have a lot more better days.”
To learn more about The Mountain Experience and the difference it can make in your life, sign up for a free one hour personal consultation by calling (877) 554.6836 or log on to www.gardenco.com.
Courtesy of ARAcontent Mane concerns
By Genn Shaughnessy Two years ago at my regular trip to the hair salon, I wanted a change, a big change to match all the changes in my life: new house, new job, new man, new life. A new stage of my career meant shaking hands with influential people in the beauty & fashion industry, a world where appearance is everything.
My long, straight, blonde hair needed some sculpting and variation in color to add some depth and I attempted communicating an inverted bob to my stylist. Somehow the invert ended up being severe and I looked like a boy with a bowl cut from behind. The results were devastating and after nearly two years, it has just grown back to a length I was finally happy with.
Once again, at a recent trip to the salon, my stylist chopped off four inches of my hair in an instant. All I asked for were baby snips to cut off the dead ends. Eight months worth of growth gone by a scissor-happy stylist who didn’t listen to what I was communicating.
Needless to say, these instances (and many other previous negative hair experiences) have caused me to obsess over my hair and seek amazing regimens to promote healthy hair, increase the speed of growth and ease the pain a wee bit in the meantime.
And now I’m here to help you! Below are some common hair questions and concerns, as well as some tips and tricks of the trade, along with some product suggestions to help keep you—and your hair—happy. Q: How often should I wash my hair? I always feel so dirty when I don’t, but it feels so dry when I do it everyday. A: It is not necessary to wash your hair daily; it’s actually bad for your hair. You need natural oils in your hair in order for it to be shiny and healthy. When you wash your hair, it strips them of this. Try reducing it to 3 or 4 times a week, then down to 1 or 2 times a week. Whenever you do wash, be sure to condition after. If your hair is oily, try putting conditioner on the middle of the hair shaft and not directly at the roots. Pro Tip: Comb or brush hair BEFORE you wash it. It’s better for your hair to comb through it dry, rather than wet. It stretches too far and breaks off when it’s wet. Product: OJON Ultra Hydrating Shampoo & Conditioner. www.ojon.com Frederic Fekkai Protein Rx Reparative Shampoo & Conditioner www.fredericfekkai.com @ Sephora Colonie Center www.Sephora.com
Q: What can I do for my hair to stop it from being so frizzy and dry? A: Dry or oily hair are both in need of some regulation. Ph balance can be off even in hair and can cause an increase in oil production, which causes hair to be very greasy. Chemical processes can be very dry and damaging to the hair, causing it to frizz and even snap. Oil can be reduced by using a clarifying or detoxifying shampoo. Damage and dryness can be treated with a deep conditioning treatment and/or mask. Pro Tip: Rub nickel-sized amount of product in your palms and apply to the ends of hair first, working your way up to the roots. This will help prevent hair from getting flat and not having a lot of volume. Product: Phyto Phytojoba & Phyto 7 @ Sephora Colonie Center www.Sephora.com or Sanctuary Spa in Saratoga Springs.
Q: What causes damage in hair and how can I protect my hair from it? A: Heat is the enemy to healthy hair. Ensure its safety under blow dryers and flat irons, with a thermal treatment before you begin using them. They conveniently come in sprays for quick fix spritzes and creams for those of you who prefer to work it in. They help protect and prevent from damage and ensure a more professional, finished look. Pro Tip: Apply thin layers of product to hair so as to not weigh the hair down. Product: Keune Care line, Blow Heat Protectant www.keune.com/products Organix Vanilla Silk, Soft & Silky Vanilla Blow Dry Cream and Silk Serum www.organixhair.com
Q: My hairstylist suggested I buy a professional hair dryer. What’s the difference between my hair dryer and a professional one? It seems pricy. Is it really worth the money? A: The difference is HUGE, and not just in the bill of sale. Most hair dryers are 1,875 watts and they take longer to dry, make hair frizzy and tend to be very heavy. Professional hair dryers tend to be 2,000 watts or higher, dry hair upwards of 70% faster, are much lighter, more streamlined and easier to hold and style with. The technology is a much higher quality all around in a professional hair dryer. In just one use you will notice a tremendous difference. The same goes for flat irons as well. Pro Tip: Turn head upside down and blow dry the root first to give extra volume and lift. Then turn head back upright and blow dry hair down to help straighten out the hair shaft. Product: T3 Bespoke Labs Featherweight Dryer & Flat Irons www.t3hair.com @ Sephora Colonie Center or www.Sephora.com
Q: What can I do with hair extensions? Who would they be good for? A: Hair extensions are so popular and for good reason. They are great for anybody who wants to add length, texture and volume to their existing hair. For a temporary once-in-awhile fix, try 100% Human Hair clip in extensions, like Tress Allure. They are made up of different widths to fit different parts of the head and are an easy addition to your wardrobe. Simply match up the hair to the correct width of your head. Divide it up into sections and give about an inch height between pieces. Pro Tip: Match up the wig clip to the part of your hair it’s being applied to, tease that section of hair and spray with hairspray. This will keep the extensions from sliding out of your hair and will make them last longer. Product: Tress Allure Clip In Extensions www.tressallure.com @ First Impressions, Colonie www.NewhairToWear.com To semi-permanently add the same effect without the hassle of the application every day, consider getting So. Cal. USA protein-bonded human hair extensions. They can last up to six months and can be styled and maintained just like your natural hair. It can be instant gratification for anyone who is overly self-conscious of the length of their hair without the painstaking months it takes to grow it out. Get more than just longer hair, get your confidence back! Available in many natural and fun colors and combinations, there is something for everyone - even if you are so daring as to add in blue, pink or purple. Pro Tip: Follow instructions exactly as provided by hair stylist and only use suggested products. Product: So.Cap.Usa www.socapusa.com www.yourextensions.com; 800.428.8788
For a complete consultation call Rumors Salon in Latham at 786.1777; www. rumorsinc.com.
Renowned Make-Up Artist Genn Shaughnessy is a broadcast personality, make-up artist & beauty expert. She has a regular beauty segment on FOX23 News Daybreak and has worked with national and international photographers & talent, including Carrie Underwood, Leslie Segrete, Constantine Maroulis, The US Women’s Hockey Team and NYS Governor Elliot Spitzer. She can be reached by email at: Genny@DarkShadowsMedia.com or visit www.DarkShadowsMedia.com.
A woman’s guide to staying healthy through the holidays
The holidays are for celebrating faith, family and friends, but they can also be extremely taxing. To successfully navigate from Thanksgiving through the New Year, you have to maximize your time, health and energy. With some forethought you can avoid common pitfalls that can sap your energy and make for a less than joyous season.
• Eating Right : Family recipes are part of our fondest holiday memories, so of course you’re going to splurge. But, you don’t have to abandon all your sensibilities. A healthy diet has benefits far beyond maintaining your figure.
• Energy and Mood: Overindulging in the wrong foods can cause blood sugar fluctuations, which lead to mood swings, fatigue and poor concentration. Try to integrate lean protein and healthy carbohydrates into your diet and avoid too much sugar at once.
• Sleeping Well: According to the Better Sleep Council, sleep is necessary to absorb the day’s learning and reenergize the body. Maximize your restfulness by finishing eating two to three hours before bedtime and avoiding alcohol late at night, which can lead to fragmented sleep.
• Your Overall Health: Poor nutrition can lower your immunity to illness. The typical American diet is deficient in a variety of nutrients including calcium, iron, vitamin A, and vitamin C, and holiday eating can be even less balanced. The best way to get your vitamins is through food, but a daily supplement is advisable if your diet is lacking.
• Getting Active: One of the first things people sacrifice is their workout time. You may not be able to make your favorite step class, but that doesn’t mean you can’t exercise. Wear comfortable shoes and take every opportunity to park far away, walk up the escalator or double-time it up the stairs. Regular exercise does more than keep your heart healthy:
• Improve Concentration: Exercising speeds blood flow through the brain, helping to flush waste products that can cause a foggy feeling and improve deeper thinking by bringing extra nutrients to the brain.
• Deflect Stress: Physically active individuals have a less extreme physiological response to pressure. A chemical released in the brain during exercise is believed to help the body mend itself from the effects of stress, which can otherwise bring about depression, trouble sleeping or overeating.
• Ease Menstrual Cramps: Regular physical activity often reduces cramping by raising levels of beta endorphins, the chemical in the brain associated with pain relief.
Despite our best efforts, it’s inevitable that some of us will have to deal with health issues during the Holidays. Here’s the best way to tackle the most common assailants: The Flu — Each winter, 20 to 50 percent of the US population comes down with this highly contagious virus.
• If you can’t eat, try getting nourishment from soup. Electrolyte drinks are also good options. Liquids are especially important, as fevers cause the body to lose fluids.
• Over-the-counter medicines may help to relieve your symptoms. But, be aware that medicines that suppress fevers can prolong the course of the infection.
• Influenza makes the body more susceptible to other illnesses, so if your symptoms aren’t clearing up or you get sick again right away, you may have a secondary infection. See your doctor for proper diagnosis and treatment.
Yeast Infections — Although most women don’t discuss them, 75 percent are affected by them. Sugar and alcohol, abundant during the holidays, can help Candida yeast proliferate, triggering yeast infections. • Most yeast infections can be treated by over-the-counter medicines. For example, Nature’s Cure makes unique 1-Day and 3-Day Yeast Infection Convenience Packs that come with both a vaginal treatment to relieve discomfort and all-natural homeopathic tablets to treat the infection internally at its source.
• If you can’t avoid the common triggers — antibiotic usage, stress, poor diet and hormonal changes — you may need to be more proactive. L. acidophilus probiotics, found in yogurt or supplements, keep your system in check competing with other organisms for glucose. Nature’s Cure Yeast Control Capsules combine both L. acidophilus and homeopathic medicine to stimulate your body’s natural defenses to maintain a healthy balance.
• See your doctor if the OTC treatment doesn’t work — you may have mistaken a bacterial infection or some other ailment for a yeast infection.
Keep these healthy living strategies in mind and you’ll be better able to cope with all that comes your way. If you do become overwhelmed, try to reduce the expectations you’ve placed on yourself and simplify your tasks. Don’t lose sight of the true meaning of the holiday season and enjoy your blessings.
Courtesy of ARAcontent Turning back timeNon-invasive proceduresBy Francesca Bruno Perhaps you’ve been curious as to what’s out there to help you age more gracefully, but have been opposed to the idea of anyone coming near you with a gas mask, variety of pointy tools, and a lengthy bill. Forget that whole “Beauty is pain; pain, beauty” mantra. Below are some of the top non-invasive procedures being performed today.
Plastic Injections Botox, or botulism toxin, is one of the most powerful poisons known and was first used over 10 years ago in treating diseases of the muscle of the eye. While collagen and other filler substances are used to fill in permanent lines in the skin, Botox, by paralyzing the muscle, works in treating lines caused by the movement of muscles in the underlying skin. Botox has proved effective at reducing lines of the forehead, crow’s feet and the furrows in the forehead and frown lines between the eyes. Recently, the use of Botox has been extended for use in relaxing muscle bands in the neck and lines around the mouth. “When done well, the result is a more rested, relaxed, yet natural appearance,” said Dr. Lucie Capek, a plastic surgeon in Latham. “The key is not to over-treat— facial expressions should still look normal. This is a very safe procedure with few side effects.”
Chemical Peel Chemical peels have been used in dermatology and plastic surgery for many decades. These peels can be classified as either light, medium-depth, or deep. Light peels are sometimes referred to as the “lunchtime peel,” in which a patient can be treated by the physician on a lunch break. Generally, a buffered hydroxy acid peel of different concentrations is applied to the skin, sometimes in combination with different agents such as salicylic acid. Depending on the particular combination used, the patient will only experience very slight or moderate redness. Medium-depth peels are stronger and can take a week or more for recovery. The deepest peels will take several weeks for recovery. Before undergoing a deep peel, the patient should ask the physician to explain the risks, which could include scarring and the benefits.
Collagen Treatment Collagen injections have been used for many years to improve facial lines and acne scars. Because three percent of the population manifests an allergic reaction to collagen, it is necessary to pre-test a patient with collagen beforehand. This is performed by injecting a small amount into the skin of the undersurface of the forearm and observing the patient. According to Dr. Capek, “today’s fillers include much longer-lasting choices, such as hyaluronic acid fillers (i.e. Restylane and Juvéderm), calcium-based fillers (i.e. Radiesse) and even a recently FDA-approved permanent filler called Artefill. This wide range of products allows [doctors] to customize treatments to the unique needs of each patient.”
Laser Resurfacing A specific laser wavelength and energy level enables the laser surgeon to operate through small incisions when performing endoscopic brow and face lifts or resurfacing sun-damaged and wrinkled skin. Lasers are also used for hair transplantation, removal of unwanted hair, the destruction of facial blood vessels and small varicose veins and capillaries of the legs and destroying tattoos and freckles. Lasers can be tricky, as with hair removal. “The laser light is attracted and absorbed by the color in the follicle, so this treatment is not effective on white or very blond hair,” warns Dr. Capek. “[But] the laser light should not damage the surrounding skin and newer lasers can be used on all shades of skin. Usually at least five to six treatments are needed to get an 85 to 95 percent reduction in hair growth.” And laser skin resurfacing might require some “homework,” especially when it comes to choosing the right treatment. “Ask questions, look at pictures and try to get an honest idea of how much improvement you can expect,” advises Dr. Capek. “Combining laser treatments with Botox or fillers can also significantly enhance the overall results.”
Dermabrasion and micro-dermabrasion Dermabrasion was introduced in the late 1940s. It consists of the use of a wire brush rotating at a high speed, going over a skin surface which has been frozen with a local refrigerant spray. Although it only causes a somewhat mild burning sensation, dermabrasion has, to a large degree, been replaced by laser resurfacing because of the amount of bleeding produced during the procedure. However, micro-dermabrasion, which has become very popular within the last few years, uses small particles (usually aluminum oxide or sodium chloride crystals), which are delivered to the skin under positive pressure, causing a superficial sanding of the face. The effect produced by micro-dermabrasion is much more superficial than either laser or dermabrasion, but has the advantages of being essentially painless.
Thermage/ThermaCool Facelift Completely non-invasive, this system uses radiofrequency to lift cheeks, face and brow areas with only topical anesthetic and no lengthy surgical process. The radio waves emitted by the ThermaCool machine tighten facial muscles and promote new collagen growth for added spring and firmness to skin. The ThermaCool process is FDA-approved and has been proven to visibly improve crows-feet, wrinkles and fine lines. This procedure is relatively stressless and has very little recovery time, if any.
ThreadLift This non-invasive technique uses sutures and surgical threads to sculpt and lift droopy areas. Threads run beneath the skin and are inserted under local anesthesia. The threads and sutures cannot be seen or felt, and results last for three to five years. In addition, recipients of the ThreadLift can return to their plastic surgeon for adjustments and “tune-ups” for continued lift. The procedure takes about an hour and, though there is some risk for bruising or swelling, the recovery time is only a few days.
Thanksgiving has always been a big deal in my family. When we moved “upstate” from Long Island, it became a tradition for my uncle and his family to make the trek from Long Island to our home in Orange County. It wasn’t just “Thanksgiving”; it was “Thanksgiving weekend”. Many times, my uncle’s family would stay until Sunday, which meant a ton of fun for the kids and a ton of work for my mother.
In those days, Thanksgiving meant laughing over dinner, lingering at the table, watching “Miracle on 34th Street” and eating leftover desserts for breakfast the next day. Now, although Thanksgiving is still celebrated with my parents, the places have changed. This year, I’ve invited my family to my home to celebrate, and even though I don’t know how to cook a turkey, I can always learn. Besides, if worse comes to worse, I can always offer a variety of side dishes.
Wherever you have your Thanksgiving dinner this year, it’s important to remember that the essence of the holiday are our family and loved ones It’s also the time of year when we broaden the definition of “loved ones” to encompass those without family or friends or homes. It is in keeping with that spirit that we at CRL are pleased to announce our “Warm Up” blanket program. We are collecting new or gently used blankets that we will donate to those in need. Donations can be dropped off at our office at 420 Kenwood Avenue in Delmar.
Best wishes from myself and the staff of CRL Magazine for a happy Thanksgiving!
P.S. Before I sign off, please note my name change below. As you’re reading this I’ll be a newlywed enjoying our honeymoon!
Aphrodite’s EyesLetting go of seeking approvalBy Michelle Heffernan “The voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.” – Marcel Proust
To spend a day looking through Aphrodite’s eyes would be a dramatic change for most women, both an awakening and an adventure of a lifetime. The mythology of this Greek goddess of love and beauty centers on passion and life-affirming energy, revealing one’s inner wisdom and heart’s desire. With Aphrodite’s power of perception, her vision would swiftly and clearly illuminate the ways in which a woman cuts herself down and cuts others down too.
Who has judged you harshly in your life? The biggest critics usually stand out in memory. How deeply did you feel that injustice? Do you revel in dreams of redeeming yourself like Jennifer Hudson of “American Idol” fame? After rejection, she went on to show the world she was of Academy Award winning caliber. Or perhaps you feel like the unfulfilled woman who has sacrificed everything for the good of the family. Whether you are working to show the critics up, selflessly live for someone, or live to be praised and admired for another reason, the problem is – it’s all about them.
Focus on you Take the focus off “them” by imagining your mind is a lens. Just as the focus of the lens becomes the photo, the focus of your thoughts becomes your reality. If your focus is dependent on others, where are you in the picture of your own life? Consequently, you give away your power, letting others decide how you measure up or what is most important in your life. Choose your own focus and be part of it.
Intention: Your declaration of independence Quiet the critics – those in your life and the one in your mind. Independence and freedom from judgment will change your life. Abraham Maslow once said, “Become independent of the positive opinion of other people.” These are words to live by, as they advise the power in relinquishing the need to be defined through acceptance by others. By doing so, satisfaction would be felt from an inner knowing and wisdom. This is true confidence and one of the most empowering ways of being. It is freedom.
On the other hand, quitting the gossip habit and giving up the desire to analyze and examine the lives of others is equally important. Stopping the self-examination and critique of others does take some practice. It is part of the social scene and can win you attention, popularity and superiority. That’s the draw. Look at your own gossip and judging habits by watching your thoughts for one full day. Note the thoughts running through your head every hour for that day. You can also experiment with not judging anyone for one day. Both are brief and painless, but revealing. It won’t even take a day to show a pattern of thinking. Ignite new energy Ignite some new positive energy into your thinking. Be playful. Imagine casting yourself in a new role by trying on a new set of eyes for a bit, perhaps your own version of Aphrodite. What is her first impression of your life? How would she feel in your life, about your relationships, about your passion for living and about your body? What is there too much of and too little of? This allows you to abandon your usual role as the harsh critic and look through more loving eyes. Instead, play the one who will seek new avenues of pleasure and adventure. Take time to discover the real you, the one buried by years of “shoulds” and “can’ts.” Look for beauty in yourself, in life and in others. Begin a journal, read an inspiring book, take that class you’ve wanted to try or take yourself on a date to a place that ignites creative energy. It may be the fabric store, the bookstore, an antique shop or time outside in nature. The focus on creating pleasure for yourself is key. The more joy in life, the less interesting gossip and negative exchanges become.
Healing a legacy Wounds and fear block a beautiful life, the life you are worthy of. Wounds and fear keep you seeking the light of worldly approval, while remaining blind to your own light. Admiration from one’s lover, husband, child, boss, parent, or the in-crowd is nothing compared to the real approval or disapproval felt in your own heart. In the end, approval seeking is really safety seeking. This need for safety keeps a woman from chasing a dream, taking a healthy risk, loving her body, leaving a marriage, ending toxic friendships or taking what she needs. You can choose to take your power back and heal personal family legacies, like your own mother-daughter relationship. Any of those psychological cuts and bruises that have been passed to you through lineage can be transformed by braking the cycle. You can learn to connect with your real self and release a legacy of self-loathing. Something better can be passed on. Children cannot be told to be lit from within. It must be exemplified through how you live and treat yourself and others. Your daughter is watching how you love – how you love your body, your life and others. Perhaps you will take a voyage of discovery and see with new eyes, as Proust suggests. Perhaps you will try the perspective of a muse, like Aphrodite, and allow that authentic you to finally emerge. So, let go of approval seeking. Take the focus off others and put it on your own heart. Set the intention of finding freedom from family legacies and personal pain and a beautiful landscape will appear. This landscape will be the ground for your heart’s desires and a transformed life.
Michelle Heffernan is the founder of Artista, a healing arts practice for mind, body and spirit. She is also a consultant for Synergy Counseling Associates in Albany, where she facilitates wellness through expressive arts for adults, children and adolescents. She can be contacted at healingARTS@nycap.rr.com.
Special considerations for female exercisersBy Judy Torel Regular exercise is one of the most positive life habits a person can practice. Current science links all exercise – cardiovascular, muscular strengthening, and flexibility training – with positive health outcomes. Exercise is credited with decreased risk of heart disease, diabetes and cancer and of symptoms of depression and anxiety, as well as improved sleep and improved capacity for everyday activities and increased self-esteem.
But as with all things, there is a light and a dark side to exercise. With regular exercise there is increased potential for certain injuries. There are several injuries related to regular exercise that are more prevalent in women. But if an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, then read on so that you can gain all the benefits of exercise while avoiding the potential pains!
The feet Overuse injuries of the feet are more prevalent in females than males. These injuries include Achilles tendonitis (inflammation and tenderness of the back of the calf right above the heel), plantar fasciitis (an inflammation of the arch on the bottom of the foot), heel spurs (tiny bone growths that result from tendons and ligaments pulling from running, walking and jumping) and neuromas (a pinched nerve usually on the foot between the third and fourth toe that causes tissue to grow around it, resulting in pain).
Eighty percent of foot surgery patients are female and most of the injuries are related to women squeezing their feet into shoes that do not match the design of their feet, according to a 15-year study by Michael J. Coughlin, MD, an orthopedic surgeon in Boise, Idaho.
As women, we strive to be fashionable. The current fashion is high–heeled (very high–heeled!), narrow-toed, tight-fitting day and evening shoes. Wearing high heels can lead to a shortening of the Achilles tendon and plantar fasciitis. Wearing narrow–toed shoes can lead to the squeezing of the widest part of our forefoot and pinched nerves. Wearing ill-fitting shoes that are too tight can lead to all of the above, plus heel spurs.
The shoe habits of women set them up for more sports related injuries of the feet when exercising. Most active women who develop a foot injury look first to their sneakers when searching for a cause of the pain, but most likely the correction to daily footwear may be the most effective treatment.
Many women don’t realize that as we age, there is a decrease of the fat pads on the bottom of our feet and our feet splay, or get longer and wider. Without changing our shoe size or adding extra cushioning through the use of additional insoles, everyday shoes can be setting women up for more sports-related injuries of the feet.
In addition to changing everyday shoe habits, active women experiencing foot pain can take several other corrective or preventative steps. Purchase a pair of cushioned insoles, such as Sof Sole or Road Runner Sports, and put them into your workout shoes in place of the standard inserts that come in the sneakers. Take time every day to stretch the muscles of the calf by putting your toe against a wall while keeping your heel on the floor and leaning forward with your hands on the wall while keeping your knee straight. Use a tennis ball, rolling pin or soup can and roll your foot over it to stretch and release the tendons and ligaments of the bottom of the foot. Try doing the same with a frozen Dixie cup of ice and get the additional benefit of decreased inflammation. If your feet are stiff in the morning, run hot water over a towel and wrap your feet in it to stimulate blood flow and loosen tendons and ligaments that have stiffened overnight.
The knee Active women are more prone to knee injuries than men. Specifically, women develop patellofemoral pain, chondromalacia and anterior cruciate strains and tears. Patellofemoral pain is pain that feels like it is right on, directly above or directly below the knee cap. Chondromalacia is a wearing down of cartilage on the underside of the knee cap that leads to a degeneration of the articular surfaces (ends of the bones) in the knee. This is diagnosed as osteo-arthritis or degenerative arthritis of the knee. The Anterior cruciate is the ligament that attaches the bones of the lower leg to the bones of the upper leg through the knee joint. When strained or torn, it leads to feelings of instability, like the knee will buckle from under you when taking a step.
All of the knee injuries described above are believed to result more in women due to looser joints stemming from estrogen levels, a tendency to land with locked knees when jumping or running and a wider hip/pelvis area resulting in a higher Q-angle (quadricept angle).
The Q-angle is measured by two intersecting lines: one coming from the top of the center of the patella (knee cap) to the anterior-superior iliac spine of the pelvis (top of the flat bone of the pelvis) and one from the patella to the tibial tubercle (bottom of the shin bone in the ankle). In women, this angle is wider and results in increased stress on the knee joint and a higher incidence of pronation (flat feet) in women.
There are several corrective and preventative steps that can be taken to compensate and correct for a wider Q-angle. Having custom-made orthotics or purchasing inserts designed to provide a more rigid arch support than that of standard-issue inserts in sneakers can help correct excessive pronation and decrease sheering forces in the knee. Strengthening the VMO (vastus medialis obliquus or inner quad muscle) can help stabilize the knee. Wall squats performed to 30-degree flexion is an exercise that can strengthen this muscle. Stretching of the muscles that get excessively tight at a higher Q-angle, such as the quads, hamstrings, gastrocnemuis (back calf) and iliotibial band, which runs down the outside of the thigh, will help reduce the unbalanced tracking of the knee cap due to a higher Q-angle. Regularly replacing running or workout shoes will help prevent knee pain. The life of a sneaker is estimated at an average of 300 miles of running. They may look great, but the bottoms have been pounded down and need to be replaced at this mileage.
Osteoporosis Active women are more prone to osteoporosis than their male counterparts. This is due to the fact that when exercising excessively, the human body sweats out electrolytes, including calcium. In addition, women are driven to maintain thinner body weights, which leads to decreased consumption of foods containing high calcium such as dairy products. A combination of high levels of exercise, which decreases estrogen, and with reduced caloric intake due to a drive for thinness, can result in osteoporosis in extremely active women.
Active women can prevent osteoporosis by including strength training with their cardiovascular training program. Ingesting 1,000mg of calcium daily from foods such as yogurt, milk or calcium-enriched products like orange juice or by taking a calcium supplement with vitamin D, which helps absorption (such as Os-Cal) can help minimize osteoporosis risk. In addition, maintaining a healthy weight as determined by body composition (body fat and lean mass percentage vs. BMI or height–weight charts), will minimize risk.
Osteoporosis is one component of a complex known as the Female Athlete Triad, which also includes low body weight and amenorrhea (absence of menstrual cycle due to low estrogen from high levels of exercise). This can literally be a deadly combination if not addressed in a timely manner. If a women suspects that she may be at risk of the Female Athlete Triad, she should consult with her doctor in order to receive testing to assess bone density, estrogen levels and healthy lean mass levels.
Exercise is a positive habit and more women need to practice it for long-term health and highest quality of life. There are some potential risks; but with proper prevention, the benefits definitely outweigh the liabilities!
Judy Torel is a therapist/personal trainer with a Master’s degree in psychology. She is certified through the American College of Sports Medicine as a fitness trainer and works out of Planet Fitness and Deb's Sweat Shop Extension. She can be reached at JTOREL2263@yahoo.com
Fall winesBy Craig Allen There’s something about fall that just puts people in a good mood – the crisp air, temperate weather and nature’s beautiful changing colors are some of the reasons. But for the wine lovers, this time of year is filled with a veritable cornucopia of “other” reasons to feel joyful: a new harvest season, new releases from your favorite wineries and many opportunities to incorporate new wines into some of your old autumn traditions.
Winemakers, industry experts and people with purple feet are all in agreement about the 2007 harvests in California and New York – the nearly perfect growing conditions this spring and summer will likely result in some of the best juice in 10 years! Look to the bountiful harvest in your own garden as an indicator of great things to come out of New York. But, alas, these current harvests are for wines that will not be available until next fall. Good things come to those who wait.
If you really can’t wait a whole year, perhaps you can wait a couple weeks until the third Thursday in November, the day that the 2007 Beaujolais Nouveau wines hit the market. Beaujolais Nouveaus are light, fruity red wines which are very easy to drink and are best served slightly chilled. This wine is a perfect choice for people wanting to transition into red wines from white wines. Just don’t wait too long to enjoy them, as they are meant to be consumed within a few months of production. Thankfully, every fall there is an abundance of new wines from past harvests released that you don’t even have to wait a couple weeks for. Much of the grapes harvested in 2006, along with some older vintages that have been developing character “in the barrel”, will make their debut this season. The 2006 vintage in California was another exceptional crop. With the rather moist, rainy winter, wineries were hoping for a mild and warm spring…and they got it! The Russian River/Sonoma County wines should be excellent, both Pinot Noir and Chardonnay. They had perfect weather and should rise to the top of the other 2006 California appellations. This is one of the areas to watch for and buy before the ratings come out.
Winemaker and Capital Region native Joseph Carr will add a Pinot Noir to his line-up to supplement new vintages of his very well-received Cabernet Sauvignon, Chardonnay and Sauvignon Blanc wines. This first Carr Pinot Noir, the 2006 vintage, is made from Carneros fruit, and only 1,000 cases were produced. It is very European in style, as are all his wines. This Pinot Noir is very elegant and balanced, with Burgundian–style earthiness and is slightly lower in alcohol, as is the French viticulture influence. With how scarce good quality Pinot is, this one will be snapped up quick, as it will be selling in the low $20s. New releases of your favorite Cabernet or Chardonnay are exciting, but do yourself a favor and add a couple new types of wine to your basket this year. Why not experiment with a Viognier, the “other white wine”? Though relatively rare and exotic, Viognier is worth tracking down, as it is a fantastic choice for this season. Cline Vineyards and Spencer Roloson both have a formidable and affordable offering. Full of floral aromas, spice, peach and apricot, Viognier pairs well with many dishes seen this time of year, including Thanksgiving dinner.
If you can’t seem to find Viognier, go with a Gewurztraminer. Its depth of character and complexities make it a wonderful choice to pair with turkey and all the fixins’. As the myriad of dishes coloring your plate that day come together in blissful harmony in your mouth, add a sip of either of these wines and take your taste experience to a new level. But leave yourself room for a slice of pumpkin pie and wash it down with that last mouthful of Gewurztraminer. The spice explosion on your tongue may even linger all the way through the turkey sandwich you’ll eat three hours later. So surprise your old friends and family with a new taste on the table this Thanksgiving and give yourselves something new to talk about…unless you are actually looking forward to Uncle Larry’s umpteenth recount of “the perfect Turkey of 1987”. If that’s the case, then by all means, break out the Blue Nun and Riunite.
Craig Allen is the owner of All Star Wine & Spirits in Latham Farms. For more information call 220.9463 or visit www.allstarwine.com.
The change in seasonsA great time to reassess your financesAs we approach the autumn months, naturally we begin to think about packing away our shorts and summer clothes in exchange for sweaters and parkas. We stop worrying about our air conditioning bill and begin to think about how to pay our heating bill. However, we may overlook the opportunity that these seasonal changes bring to assess other aspects of our lives — particularly the financial aspects. According to many accountants, financial planning is especially pertinent now. Late summer and early fall are the best times to analyze your finances. The idea is to get everything in order today because you won’t be able to change the bottom line when December 31st rolls around. A good place to start is by taking a long, hard look at your net worth, or where you stand financially. Make a two-columned list that has your assets on one side and your liabilities on the other:
Assets • Total value of your home and/or other real estate • Balances in savings and money market accounts • Value of all your investments combined (stocks, bonds, mutual funds, etc.) • Amounts of all 401(k) and IRA accounts not included above • Value of an Ownership interest in a business
Liabilities • Your outstanding mortgage • Total due on credit cards and loans • Total amount due for property settlements or other judgments/debts • Amount you owe in alimony or child support Subtract your liabilities from your assets. What remains are the resources you have to begin building a strong financial foundation! Don’t stress if you aren’t satisfied with this number right off the bat. Most people aren’t. If you come up with a negative number, your first step is to implement a budget to pay off all non-mortgage debt: stop using your credit cards, begin saving monthly, and establish an emergency fund. This brings you to the next step in the process: Come up with a plan to turn this foundation into a wealth building opportunity through a combination of savings, investment and insurance vehicles. Consider these saving options:
Savings options • Certificates of Deposit (CDs) — generally offer a higher rate of return, but may require you to tie up your money for months or years at a time. • Money Market Accounts — deliver a rate of return that’s similar to, but usually less than a CD, combined with the ability to withdraw funds when needed. • 529 Educational Savings Plans — flexible savings plan that allows you to save amounts (in excess of $250,000 per student) tax-deferred to cover educational expenses. Also consider saving through retirement options: • Individual Retirement Accounts (IRAs) — there are two types available. With Traditional IRAs you can contribute as much as $4,000 a year in 2007 ($5,000 if 50 or older) and deduct your contribution from your tax return. These amounts increase in 2008 to $5,000 for those under 50 and $6,000 if you are 50 and over. • 401 (k) Retirement plans — offered by many employers as a way to encourage employees to save for retirement. Many companies match a certain percentage of employee contributions. While investing in the future through savings and retirement plans is a given, a financial area many people forget to consider is life insurance. According to the Insurance Information Institute, millions of Americans don’t carry any life insurance at all; millions more don’t have enough to provide sufficient financial security for their families. This is changing, however. The Insurance Institute reports that, on average, premiums for individual life insurance have been falling about five percent a year since 2000 and are expected to drop an additional four percent in 2007. Premiums have gone down because people are living longer. Interested consumers should take advantage of the downward trend and tendencies of competitive markets. According to Mike Akker, Chief Investment Officer of SBLI USA Mutual Life Insurance Company, “There’s never been a better time to purchase life insurance to protect your family than right now.”
Here are some of the options to consider • Whole life insurance — Also called permanent life insurance. It features coverage that lasts an entire lifetime and typically offers cash value that may accumulate tax-deferred. This kind of insurance eliminates concern about qualifying for insurance later in life. • Term life insurance — Coverage that lasts a specific period of time. It provides affordable security and is an attractive option for families purchasing life insurance for the first time. • Annuities — A contract with the insurance company to provide guaranteed payments at a specific time, drawn from funds you have entrusted to that company. Your funds may earn interest at a fixed or variable rate, depending on the option you choose. With change in the air, now is the time to start thinking about your financial future. Do you want to know more about the products listed here as well as others? As you longingly stow away your swimsuits and start to think about curling up by the fire, you should also consider visiting www.sbliusa.com, where you’ll benefit from free access to financial planning resources, including interactive calculators, real life stories, informative articles, product guides and more. Courtesy of ARAcontent Financial Planning Your greatest asset is your ability to earn an incomeThe first week of this month is Financial Planning Week and, with the number of American workers who suffer income-limiting disabilities on the rise, “disability” financial planning and preparation have never been more important for America’s workforce.
If you experienced an accident or illness and could not return to work for a few months — or even years — how would you and your family manage financially? The Council for Disability Awareness (CDA) has prepared five questions to help you understand how you would handle your regular expenses during a period of lost income due to an accident or illness: 1. What are my “necessary” monthly living expenses that would continue even if my income stopped? My rent or mortgage, utilities, food, medical insurance?
2. Would my personal savings pay for my “necessary” monthly expenses–for one month, three months, six months, longer? Would my savings also cover my “out–of–pocket” medical expenses (deductibles and co-pays)?
3. Does my employer have a sick pay plan or long-term disability program, or both? Am I participating? When would it start, how much would it pay me and for how long?
4. What other sources of income might be available to help me pay for my expenses? My spouse’s income, second mortgage, retirement funds, credit cards?
5. Could I afford my medical COBRA premiums, and what would happen to the contributions to my 401(k) account or retirement plan?
“For most folks, their greatest asset is their ability to work and earn an income,” explains Robert Taylor, president of the Council for Disability Awareness. “If you should lose that ability, it’s important for you to understand how you would manage and plan accordingly. The five questions are a good start to planning ahead.” To learn more about tools and resources that can help you assess your current financial situation and enhance your financial security, visit the CDA website, www.disabilitycanhappen.org.
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The season of gratitudeThree essentials for building appreciation and gratitudeBy Randy Cale, PH.D As the holiday season starts to unfold, we not only begin holiday plans, but often we build in more moments to pause and express our gratitude for our lives. It is truly one of those hidden secrets of happiness. Gratitude opens the door to enjoyment of the life we have now, rather than spending our time focused on the future as salvation from the present.
Yet, many parents express frustration with the lack of gratitude and appreciation that their children seem to experience.This is not the case for all children, of course. But for many families, parents notice that the more they give the more that their children want. And the more they want, the more they appear to lack appreciation for what they get. Many of us see this happening and don’t know what to do about it. Here are three keys to getting started.
1.Be chronically grateful! When parents come to my office and complain about their children not being grateful, I first ask how often they complain about their life. Almost without exception, parents concede that their children often hear Mom and Dad complaining about each other, events at work, the lack of money in the budget, what the neighbors have done, in-laws’ “craziness”, or their lack of happiness with the children’s behavior.In other words, many of us who want our children to be more grateful are modeling the opposite! We model negativity – noticing much more of what is not working – rather than focusing on what is working. So the first suggestion is quite simple: Become what you want your children to be. Stop noticing what’s wrong and start noticing what is right in your world. Pay attention and stop complaining about what you don’t like.Nurture discussions around the parts of your life that you love, enjoy and appreciate. Also, remember that it is hard to teach your kids a trait that you don’t own.Gratitude has to begin with what we model.The more we live in a state of gratitude and appreciation, the more our children can learn naturally and easily. Without it, we are asking our children to master this perspective, when we haven’t done so ourselves. It just won’t work.
2. Stop rewarding negativity by giving it your energy and attention. Negativity can take many forms. It can look like a complaint, a constant problem, finding what’s wrong with everything and always wanting more. Okay, let’s get real for a minute. This is what really gets to you, isn’t it? When kids complain about their life and you know that they really have an exceptional life. Intuitively, we understand that there is no room for gratitude when your kids are caught up in making complaints, finding only problems and constantly asking for more and more. As parents, you know that children can become upset and can express legitimate concerns for which they need our help and guidance.Obviously, you want to respond to these. However, if you notice that your children have learned to habitually complain about their siblings, friends, parents or their teachers, it’s time to just “allow” those complaints. Or if they have fallen into the pattern of making repeated demands, then it is time to stop lecturing or resisting the demands and complaints. It is essential that you limit how much you “invest” in these complaints or demands, as your energy only serves to feed these negative patterns. Instead, just “allow” the complaints to fall on disinterested ears. Show no interest whatsoever. In other words, just ignore them completely! Teach your children (by your actions) that such behavior is NOT worthy of your attention and they will learn that such behavior is NOT worthy of their attention either. They will learn to let go of these patterns when you have let go of these patterns. Instead…
3. Invest your life energy into “The Good Stuff” If you’re serious about nurturing gratitude you have to put your daily energy into the behaviors and actions you value. Don’t be lazy about this. If you are serious about nurturing gratitude and appreciation, here’s the formula that will make it happen. a) Start noticing how often things work out to serve you and your family. Find more appreciation for the clerk at the grocery store, your neighbor, your friend, even your health. Even when you see a lack (such as a lack of health), see if you can find a way where it serves to strengthen you and bring you to a state of greater appreciation. Now…start expressing that when you are around your children. b) Start noticing everything that you enjoy and appreciate about your children’s behavior. Let your kids know how grateful you are that they open the door, help carry in the groceries or take the dog for a walk.Express appreciation for how they waited patiently in the car or answered the phone respectfully.Use thoughtful language consistently and repeatedly as you pay more and more attention to the behavior that you want to nurture and promote. c) For every instance where you express your appreciation for your children’s actions, “catch” four more positive moments and just notice these without verbal comment. Simply smile, wink or nod. Or it could be a touch on the shoulder or a brief thumbs-up. In other words, give lots of non-verbal appreciation by simply smiling and noticing the moments YOU really appreciate and enjoy. In this way, you use your influence to nurture “the good stuff.” Your children will learn to pay attention and to notice the most wonderful and valuable parts of their life – because you do! I wish you all a wonderful and peaceful holiday season!As you spend time with those you love, I hope you begin to put these ideas to work, so you can see the power of these simple changes.
Dr. Randy Cale, a Clifton Park based parenting expert, author, speaker and licensed psychologist, offers practical guidance for a host of parenting concerns. Dr. Cale’s new website, www.TerrificParenting.com offers valuable free parenting information and an email newsletter.
Destination: Tasmania “Island of inspiration”By Linda McClain, CTA Statistics show that Australia, the Land Down Under, was host to over four million tourists in 2004. With six states and two territories, Australia is the only continent that is one country. Even though Australia is a forerunner of desirable vacation destinations, most people are unaware of its smallest state, Tasmania. I have had the unique pleasure of visiting this island state and found its location and beauty both unforgettable and intriguing. Tasmania is located 124 miles south of mainland Australia. Originally, it was named Van Diemens Land by Abel Tasman, who charted it in 1642. Later, it was renamed Tasmania after the explorer himself. Approximately 400,000 people live in Tasmania. Their origin mainly consists of Australian, Irish, or English descent. There is also a mixture of people from New Zealand, Germany, Italy and the Netherlands.
How do I get there? Fly nonstop from Melbourne, Australia or ferry over the Bass Strait from Melbourne to Devonport, Tasmania. US citizens need a valid passport and a VISA to visit Australia. Capital city: Hobart Language: English Currency: Australian dollar Best time to visit: Tasmania has four distinct seasons. December through April has the most stable weather conditions. In addition, Hobart is one of the two driest state capitals in Australia. Summer: December, January, February–Average maximum temperature 70˚ F Fall: March, April, May – temps averages 63˚F Winter: June, July, August – Temps range from 40˚F to 52˚F Spring: September, October, November – Temps average 65˚F The mountains and highlands experience snow. Conde Naste Traveler voted Tasmania the best temperate island in the world. Historic significance: While Sydney was the first Australian settlement, Tasmania became the second state in 1803. Its development was to establish a place to house prisoners from the United Kingdom. Even today, the ruins of Port Arthur, Australia’s historic penal colony are evident. Daily tours include haunting tales of the inmates, who were brutally punished and often tortured for their wrongdoings. You will be fascinated to learn of the “crimes”—stealing a candlestick or loaf of bread for their family—which led prisoners to their demise in a land so remote and disconnected from any opportunity for justice or escape.
What can I do there? Tasmania is a mecca of diverse outdoor activities. Whether you are laid back or an extreme adventure lover, you can choose a new activity every day. Its beautiful beaches are the perfect setting for every water activity imaginable, including surfing and diving. Its coastline offers dramatic diversity from tranquil shores, dramatic cliffs and lush rainforests. A fisherman’s dream! Tasmania has the finest brown trout angling in the southern hemisphere. A botanist’s delight! Ancient species of flora flourish in the Tasmanian climate. In addition, the largest lavender farm in the world can be found here. Unique Australian wildlife includes the Tasmanian devil, wombat, wallaby, fairy penguins and platypus, to name a few. Wine lovers have over 60 wineries to choose from in Tasmania. Taste award-winning chardonnay, pinot noir and Riesling. Tasmania has over 1,000 miles of walking tracks and 18 national parks. With 68 golf courses, Tasmania has more per capita than any other area of Australia.
Fun facts • The Tasman Pine is estimated to be over 4,000 years old! • The oldest bridge, which is still in use, is in Richmond, Tasmania. • Launceston, Tasmania was the first to have electric street lights in the southern hemisphere. • Australia’s first parking meters were in installed in Hobart, Tasmania in 1955. • The Tasmanian devil is three to four feet long, feeds on dead animals and is mainly nocturnal. It can store body fat in its carrot-shaped tail! • The kangaroo and emu are represented on Australia’s coat-of–arms because of two reasons: They are two of only a handful of Australia’s land-dwelling animals can only move forward and they cannot walk backwards! • Tasmania has the cleanest air in the world. Their rainwater is so pure it is bottled and shipped to Australian athletes traveling around the world. Famous personality: Errol Flynn, famous Hollywood actor, was born in Hobart, Tasmania. He was of British descent. Tasmanian vacation anyone? “No worries”. Log onto www.discovertasmania.com to learn more. l Linda McClain, CTA, is owner of Capital Region based Linda McClain Travel Services. “From The Islands To The Highlands, No Dream Is Too Far From Here!” For more information call 372.7657 or visit www.lindamcclaintravel.com.
Seeing the Wild Side of the Capital Region
By William M. Dowd
("Turkey Trot" photo by William M. Dowd; "Deer at Dinner" photo by April L. Dowd) Andre, the larger of The Other Beings that co-inhabit our house up here on Weathering Heights overlooking the Hudson River, isn’t given to sudden movements unless there is food involved. This morning was a different matter entirely.
What had struck a chord at the very center of his feline being was the huge blue jay perched in the crabapple tree outside the kitchen window. The smaller finches, nuthatches, cardinals, woodpeckers, titmouses (titmice, titmeese? ... I never can quite get it straight) and assorted wild birds that usually perch there awaiting their turn at the suet and mixed-seed cages had been temporarily spooked by big bird.
Whiskers standing straight out, tail twitching, that funny little mewling noise deep in the throat that beings of his persuasion often employ when contemplating winged potential food. Finally, I thought, he’s distracted from breakfast and ready to exercise his Creator’s design by making a mad dash at the window to scare off the cocky intruder.
Then, Lily, the smaller (but not by much) of The Other Beings, glided sleepily down the stairs from the loft where she’d spent the night on her comfy pillow bed, ready for breakfast and mewing at Andre to join her at the dish.
That broke the magical spell and we all lapsed into the morning routine. A forkful of tuna for each of them, a bowl of fresh water, and then a bowl of crunchy stuff to keep their tummies satisfied and their teeth sparking clean.
There still was hope for them to pay attention to the world around them. Morning sunshine actually was spilling over Bald Mountain just behind us, that peak you can identify as you cross the river from Albany County to Rensselaer County on Route 7 by the soaring WNYT television tower it hosts.
Canada geese, wild turkeys, cackling crows and other bully birds were nowhere in sight for a change. The rainbow of smaller creatures would soon be twittering and scampering about in full view before heading off on their migratory ways. All in all, a rather satisfying way to start an autumn day.
It’s typical of life in the Capital Region, or at least typical of the wildlife.
No matter how many office towers we erect, traffic roundabouts we install, housing developments we sprout, the wildlife keeps reminding us we’re still very close to unspoiled nature.
One of the most vivid reminders came while playing golf at Brunswick Greens, just outside Troy.
The quick rustling in the cattail reeds and marsh grass at the edge of the pond put me on alert. The sudden beating of powerful wings and a loud, clacking kuck kuck kuck sound startled me nevertheless. The insistent sound continued, as the bird obviously tried to lure us away from a nest it thought we might disturb. That’s when it raised the shaggy crest on its dark head, a sharp contrast to its white throat, chestnut-colored neck and bluish-green back.
Ah, ha. A green heron. No wonder I love playing golf.
As a gypsy golfer who plays only sporadically and belongs to no particular club, I’ve been privy to observing wildlife on numerous courses in the Capital Region.
Given my particular level of play — sub-par in the truest sense of the phrase — I’ve also had many opportunities to go thrashing about in woods, ponds, swamps and undergrowth in search of an errant ball. It’s amazing how many snakes, rabbits and chipmunks a clumsy golfer can flush out of hiding, along with the occasional skunk.
But there is nothing like simply watching, without disturbing, golf course wildlife.
On the day I saw the green heron, my buddy and I sat sipping cool drinks after a round of destroying golf balls and portions of our self-confidence.
As our gaze swept over the rise and fall of the course, taking in the views of lush green grass and stands of paper birch, dense pines and maples, towering red oaks and fernlike black walnut, a majestic white bird swooped low over a pond barely 50 yards from us.
It touched down like a feather, its brilliant white plumage and long, thin black legs in sharp contrast to the manicured emerald grass. It was a great egret, often mistaken for the snowy egret but differentiated by its black feet compared to what bird watchers refer to as the snowy’s “golden slippers.’’
The slender, stately creature extended its neck toward the water, then gently stepped into the pond, causing barely a ripple. The hunt for food was on as nature maintained its eternal rhythm despite the staccato tsss tsss tsss of an oscillating lawn sprinkler and the occasional cries of golfers alternately cursing and cheering their shots.
These solitary waders are in sharp contrast to that most prolific of wild birds, the Canada goose.
You don’t have to be on a golf course to spot the muscular 12-15 pound honkers that permeate any patch of ground around here that is near a water supply. But, it is on those courses they display a particularly belligerent attitude, helped along by their strength of numbers.
I recall one early afternoon I was leisurely tracking down an errant 3-iron shot near a large pond on the Western Turnpike Golf Course in Guilderland.
Off in the distance I heard a soft, thrumming sound. As I zeroed in on its source, I realized it was a wave of Canada geese maneuvering for a pond landing.
Fluttering wings extended above them, they were aiming straight down. As they hit the surface the slapping sound of webbed feet on water was like a muffled orchestra percussion section, supplying the meter for this aerial ballet.
No sooner had they landed and paddled to one end of the pond, a second wave came in. Then a third. And, finally, a smaller fourth wave of stragglers that had formed up overhead as the stronger flyers took care of business down below.
It was an elegant, inspiring sight that stopped all the golfers in their tracks to watch as the rays of the late afternoon sun bounced off the smooth feathers and rippled water, adding accents to the tableau.
The euphoria such unexpected simple pleasures can inspire was, however, short lived. By the time I found my ball, most of the geese had exited the pond in search of food and had surrounded the ball.
As I stood knee-deep in honkers, unable to swing my club too far for fear of striking one of them and prompting retribution from the notoriously grumpy birds, I wondered if the experience was worth the trouble.
Now that I look back on this marvelous display of nature, I’m convinced it was.
William M. Dowd is a Capital Region writer and photographer specializing in food, drink and destinations at Dowd's Guides.
Happy November! It is the perfect month to give thanks for the bounty of wonderful books coming out. This month we have a new mystery, a book of humorous essays by a successful cartoonist, and a biography of a beautiful American woman who married into the British aristocracy and became the mother of arguably the greatest English statesman of the 20th century.
Die With Me by Elena Forbes is a debut mystery that takes place in present-day London. Our protagonist is Mark Tartaglia, a homicide detective whose newest case involves a series of presumed suicides (including suicide notes) that are actually meticulously–planned murders. Complicating the investigation are the appointment of a new, inexperienced supervisor eager to assert her authority, the addition of a supremely confident crime profiler whose interpretation of the crimes is diametrically opposed to Tartaglia’s, and the recent dissolution of his affair with Fiona Blake, the forensic pathologist assigned to the case. Tartaglia’s partner in crime-fighting is Sergeant Sam (short for Samantha) Donovan, an appealing character whose slight crush on her partner is kept firmly in check. When a young girl is found dead after a fall from a church balcony, the death is ruled a suicide, until a witness who saw the girl with an older man shortly before her body was discovered comes forward with information. Acting on a hunch, Tartaglia investigates recent suicides to see if any others fit the profile and finds out that they have a diabolically clever serial killer on their hands. Scenes of painstaking police work are interspersed with scenes of the murderer meeting up with his next victims and reflecting on his past kills. As Tartaglia and Donovan get closer to their quarry, tension mounts and the climactic scene is thrilling. The politics of the homicide squad and the criminal investigation are deftly handled; the characters are interesting and multi-dimensional. Fans of police procedurals will enjoy Die With Me and will be happy to know that Elena Forbes is currently working on a sequel.
Is there anyone who works in an office that doesn’t have at least one Dilbert comic strip posted on their cubicle wall? Scott Adams, creator of Dilbert and author of several management books, has just published a collection of his short essays entitled Stick to Drawing Comics, Monkey Brain!: Cartoonist Ignores Helpful Advice. You should be very happy he ignored that helpful advice because this is a laugh-out-loud funny book. Not every essay is a winner, but enough hit the mark to make this a fun book. Some standouts include “Winning,” a moving piece about the comeback of tennis player James Blake; “What Would Trump Do?”, in which Adams wonders how wealthy Christians rationalize having so much, while other people are struggling to survive; and “Small Pleasures,” in which the cartoonist expounds upon the simple joys of life after recovering from the flu. Other topics he touches upon are Dilbert cartoons that never made it into the newspaper and why, his preparations for his wedding, and why the choice of some citizens not to vote is not the worst thing in the world. If you do not suffer fools gladly, possess a geeky/nerdy side and can handle a certain amount of vulgarity, this is your book. And even if it isn’t your cup of tea, I bet you know someone who would love to have this book in his bathroom library. It will appeal to cubicle dwellers and non-cubicle dwellers alike.
During the second half of the 19th century, the British aristocracy was beginning its financial downslide. Keeping up the ancestral estates was an expensive proposition and revenues were falling. Enter the “dollar princesses”—young American heiresses eager to marry titled husbands. One such woman was Jennie Jerome, whose story is chronicled in American Jennie: The Remarkable Life of Lady Randolph Churchill by Anne Sebba. This is not a dry, scholarly biography; it includes excerpts from Jennie’s letters and gives a broad picture of the society in which this independent American woman found herself after her whirlwind courtship and marriage to Randolph Churchill. At first her marriage is a happy one, but when her husband’s political fortunes fall and their finances become strained, Jennie focuses her energy on her son, Winston, and encourages him in his military and political endeavors. After her husband’s death, Jennie’s career became more colorful; she was rumored to have several lovers, remarried, started a magazine, became a nurse during the Boer War and continued to be a controversial figure in London society. Her championing of the special British-American relationship influenced her son’s views, and thus the course of World War II. Jennie Churchill was a woman ahead of her time and this biography gives her her due.
And just a brief mention: If you are looking for something to read now that Jan Karon’s Mitford series is concluded, I highly recommend Gail Fraser’s Lumby series. She is not only local, she is a terrific writer of small-town drama and humor. The first two titles are The Lumby Lines and Stealing Lumby, and the third one, Lumby’s Bounty, will be out in January. Happy reading!
Susan Taylor has been in the book business, in one aspect or another, since 1982. She recently returned to the Capital District after 14 years in the Boston area (which included stints at the Harvard Bookstore and the Wellesley Booksmith), and is happily re-employed at the Book House of Stuyvesant Plaza. Stop by the store if you are looking for a good book—she’s read a lot more than she can talk about here!
Sun Sign Forecast For November 2007By Arlene DeAngelus Best Days for November: 3rd, 7th and 8th Aries: (March 21 to April 20) Shared assets, savings and tax matters are your emphasis for this month. After the 1st of the month, all communications run more smoothly and you express yourself more confidently. You are able to resolve old problems after the 24th. Later in the month, you take a renewed interest in your everyday environment and daily habits. Communicate with your friends.
Taurus: (April 21 to May 20) One-to-one partnerships, both business and personal, are your emphasis for this month. Discuss any differences with co-workers after the 1st of the month. After the 24th, you begin to achieve goals that you thought were impossible. Later in the month, it is the time to re-evaluate your spending habits and to revise your budget. Start a new savings plan.
Gemini : (May 21 to June 20) Work relationships and taking better care of your health are your emphasis for this month. After the 1st of the month, conversations with loved ones bring you happiness. The sense of stability and predictability returns in career areas after the 24th. Later in the month, you change your style of dress or maybe try a new hairdo or color. Buy a new cologne.
Cancer: (June 21 to July 22) Loved ones and your relationships with these important people are your emphasis for this month. Resolve personal issues with family members after the 1st of the month. After the 24th, you are attracted to new ways of thinking. Later in the month, you seek to gain new understanding of others and to correct past mistakes. You are flexible and keep an open mind.
Leo: (July 23 to August 22) Domestic and personal areas are your emphasis for this month. After the 1st of the month, take up a new study or writing project. Decisions regarding joint assets and shared resources can be made after the 24th with careful thought. Later in the month, analyze your goals and set long-term directions. This is a time when wishes can come true.
Virgo: (August 23 to September 22) Everyday environment and your daily habits are your emphasis for this month. Re-evaluate your personal finances after the 1st of the month. Stability returns in one-to-one relationships and you can make any needed changes in these relationships after the 24th. Later in the month, evaluate your career directions, or the equivalent. Set new goals to achieve.
Libra: (September 23 to October 22) Finances and values are your emphasis for this month. You express yourself well to others and you are your strongest asset after the 1st of the month. You take a new attitude toward work and changes can occur in your job after the 24th. Later in the month, you explore different perspectives on life. Your interest turns to such subjects as philosophy and spirituality
Scorpio: (October 23 to November 21) Self-expression and your appearance are your emphasis for this month. You reach out to explore new horizons and also seek a deeper spiritual understanding after the 1st of the month. You attract new experiences and are willing to experiment with life after the 24th. Later in the month, settle debts and resolve any disputes with shared resources and joint assets.
Sagittarius: (November 22 to December 21) Knowledge pertaining to spirituality and your inner self are your emphasis for this month. Setting new goals and directions can be done after the 1st of the month. You become more flexible as your home environment changes after the 24th. Later in the month, your understanding of others increases and you willingly compromise in one-to-one relationships.
Capricorn: (December 22 to January 19) Philosophy, spirituality and foreign cultures are your emphasis for this month. Career areas are busy, but new strategies can be developed after the 1st of the month. Your habits and communications change as your interest turns toward new studies. Later in the month, you begin new diet and exercise programs to increase your physical efficiency.
Aquarius: (January 20 to February 18) Career areas, or the equivalent, are your emphasis for this month. Recognition for a job well done is possible. Your spiritual interest expands and abstract studies are possible after the 1st of the month. Financial matters can be settled after the 24th. Later in the month, loved ones get priority and you become involved in creative projects.
Pisces: (February 19 to March 20) Intellectual and spiritual pursuits are your emphasis for this month. You seek wisdom. Communications pertinent to shared resources and values are clearer after the 1st of the month. You begin to remove old limitations that you have placed on yourself after the 24th. Later in the month, personal matters improve as you resolve old situations and conditions.
Understanding womenBy John Gray The holidays are right around the corner, which means it’s time for me to partake in an annual tradition. Thanksgiving with the family?A special trip up a mountain to pick out the perfect Christmas tree? Nice ideas all, but this is something a little different. I like to go to the attic and dig out my tranquilizer gun and head directly to the nearest mall. Don’t worry, I’m not hunting some poor defenseless animal, but searching for men who have lost their way. My goal - tag em, bag em and return them to the herd. Confused? Let me explain. Picture it, you’re at the mall – Crossgates, Colonie Center, it doesn’t matter which one - and you find yourself in the women’s lingeriedepartment at Macy’s when you see it. It’s a man, or what used to be a man before Dr. Phil and Oprah got a hold of him, and he’s standing outside the fitting room holding a woman’s purse. If some of you need to stop reading now, I totally understand; I know this is upsetting to hear. Our hero has a look of absolute desperation and defeat on his face; one that says, “She makes me do this.” It’s at this moment that I and a team of other men who drink beer, eat wings and watch Roadhouse once a week on VH1, shoot him with a tranquilizer dart and whisk him away from this madness. When the man wakes up, he finds himself in the camping section at LL Bean where the rich aroma of propane and fishing lures (yes, they have smells) brings him back to the place we call “Manhood”. When the woman comes out of the changing room all she finds is her purse on the floor and a postcard with a picture of Austin Powers. When she flips it over, written in bold black letters it says, “He’s a man baby. Yeah!” Since this month’s issue of CRL is dedicated to women,I thought I would tell all women that even though your man loves you, he does not want to hold your purse or stand around in Victoria’s Secret while you try on bras. As I get older, it’s clear to me that men and women don’t understand each other, so today I offer (free of charge) my insight into how the opposite sex ticks. I’m 44 and I’ve been a man almost my whole life. There was that one summer I watched “Beaches” three times and took up crochet, but I don’t like to talk about it. Be that as it may, the best way I can help men and women is by taking the things they say and translating them into the things they really mean.
Let’s start with women and the things they say to men. “I’m fine.” means - I’m not fine. Actually I’m as far from fine as a person can be. You’ve done something wrong, but have so much sludge in that head of yours you can’t figure out what it is. So I’ll just stand here being ‘fine’ till you retrace your steps and stumble upon your incredible error. Here’s a hint: it probably has something to do with an anniversary of some sort.
“What are you doing Saturday?” This is deceiving. While this certainly sounds like a question, it’s actually a statement. When a woman asks her man this question, what she’s really saying is, “I don’t know if you were planning on laying on the couch all day Saturday and watching college football, but that’s not happening buddy. We’re going to Bed Bath and Beyond to pick out bedding and curtains for the baby’s room. What baby? Oh yeah, I’m pregnant, now get your coat.”
“Do you think my friend Kelly is cute?” This is a trap. Don’t answer it. If you say “yes” then you’ll never hear the end of it. Twenty years from now she’ll ask you toweed the garden with her and when you refuse she’ll say, “Oh, but I bet if Kelly wanted you to weed with her you’d do it wouldn’t you?!” And if you tell her Kelly is ugly she’ll know you are lying and wonder what else you are hiding.
“Do you know what Sarah’s husband did for her today”? This is a bad one. It sounds innocent enough, but trust me, no matter how she finishes that sentence what she’s really saying is, “Sarah married a man who actually does things for her, nice things and you don’t have a romantic bone in your body. A body, I might add, which hasn’t seen the inside of a shower in two days. My mom was right. I should have married Brad Brentworth. He’s a dentist now. Our children would have perfect teeth.”
“We need to talk.” – Run. She’s either breaking up with you, or if you are single, wants you to buy her a ring and make beautiful babies. Speaking of which, if you are single please pay close attention to the following translations.
“Want to go to the mall?” Let’s go to the mall and shop for an engagement ring.
“Do you like October?” Let’s go to the mall, get a ring and get married in October.
“Please pass the green beans” After we eat these beans lets go to the mall, get a ring, get married in October and have beautiful twin boys named Brad and Taye. This, of course, having nothing to do with her infatuation with Brad Pitt and Taye Diggs.
Okay, enough picking on women. Let’s translate what men really mean when they speak. If he says “That outfit looks nice on you,” it means, “I’d like to rip that outfit off of you and get frisky.”
“The stock market did well today,” “I’m rich and I’d like to rip that outfit off of you and get frisky.”
If he belches loudly it means, “I have no manners. That said can I rip that outfit off of you and get frisky?”
If he says “Your mom is staying with us instead of a hotel. Great,” this means: “There goes the weekend. Not only can’t I watch the Giants game, but nowI’ll be hearing all about Brad Brentworth and his kids with perfect teeth. Plus, with that battle ax in the house there’s no way we can get frisky.
“What did you do with my shirts that fit me?” I haven’t gained any weight since high school, so clearly you have either shrunk all my shirts ‘cause you stink atlaundry or you just plain lost them. Either way, it’s your fault this shirt doesn’t fit anymore. That said, can you please pass me that big plate of brownies so I can inhale them?
“Yes, I’m going to the bachelor party, but as far as I know there are not going to be strippers” This is a trick. Guys, figure if they don’t know any details of the party, then you can’t blame them later if some girl named Chastity shows up wearing dental floss and a smile. “I had no idea she was coming” is what you’ll be told and he could pass a lie detector test when he says it. Parental tip: if you name your daughter Chastity, Porsche or Sahvana h you are increasing the likelihood she will choose a job in the ‘personal entertainment’ industry. Just a little heads up there for you expecting parents.
I see we are running short of space, so let’s give you gals a few quick ones if you are ever in a bar and a guy approaches you.
“Can I buy you a drink?” Let’s get naked.
“Don’t you work out at my gym?” I’ve seen you half-dressed and sweaty, so do you want to get naked?
“I like to keep my options open” While I’m looking at you right now I’m secretly checking out every other girl in the place, and if I can get a ‘better deal,’ I most certainly will without a shred of guilt. I’m a pig. See my curly tail? Oink, oink.
“Girlfriends are cool, but I like to hang with my boys” Even though I’m 34, I still act like I’m 14 and if I have to choose between you or an evening of making fart sounds with my friends, you will lose every time.
All kidding aside, I would offer this simple bit of advice to anyone in a relationship, married or otherwise, and it comes with three simple words: I appreciate you. Because when you get right down to it, that’s all any of us want to hear and know. The burnt dinners and yard work, trips to the dry cleaners and pharmacy; you don’t mind any of it as long as you know it is truly appreciated. Those three words at the end of a long day can be enough. Oh, and flowers wouldn’t hurt either.
John Gray is a Fox23 News anchor and contributing writer at the Troy Record. He can be reached at johngray@fox23news.com

A day of cooking at the CIABy Vikki & Dan Moran The prestigious Culinary Institute of America (CIA) in nearby Hyde Park, NY is the oldest culinary college in the United States and a dining destination that requires reservations months in advance. There is also a continuing education program comprised of numerous cooking classes for beginners or novices, as well as already-established chefs.
My husband and I had the opportunity to take a one day class – Mediterranean Cooking – last month. After doing so, I realized that this is something every couple should do, especially before marriage. It’s a boot camp of cooperation and teaches you how to work as a team – something essential in a relationship.
The CIA’s Continuing Education program appears to be very successful and from our discussions with attendees (otherwise known as “foodies”), the programs are well received. Many of the attendees had already taken classes ranging from sauté classes to gluten-free cooking.
Our day began in the classroom at 9am. We were introduced to our teacher, Chef Mark Ainsworth and received a classroom orientation. He taught us about the culinary influences of the Mediterranean region, which makes up approximately 15 countries and island nations situated around Africa, Europe and Asia on the Mediterranean Sea. As Chef Ainsworth told our group, “Mediterranean cooking isn’t spaghetti and meatballs.” Rather, it is comprised of the foods of Spain, Portugal, Italy, France, Greece, Turkey, North Africa and the Middle East.
After orientation, we were handed the recipes, and both my husband and I admitted to feeling slightly overwhelmed by the complexity. Secretly, we were both thinking there is no way this group of 17 strangers would get through even something as basic as Mac & Cheese, let alone in an orderly fashion. Our instructions were to form teams (there were five teams of three and five students), read recipes thoroughly and follow the CIA’s Mise en Place organizational method. This means that students do all the prep work, including measuring ingredients and gathering equipment before the actual cooking begins. Student assistances chefs-in-training were there to help if we needed it. We were also instructed to have all foods prepared by 1:30pm for a 2pm lunch.
Chef Ainsworth is witty and confident and very well-versed in the Mediterranean style of cooking, which we learned in great detail. He encouraged us to modify cooking recipes, but never baking recipes. Lucky for us, we weren’t baking. Below is our view of our day.
Dan - I felt that there was no way this would come together. I love to cook, but having to prepare everything ahead like this takes away the fun of the quick trips to the market. I love those quick trips.
Vikki – Wow, what a kitchen it was! We all received aprons and chef hats and two hand towels for lifting pots and the biggest, sharpest knives I have ever used. There was also an aluminum container for all our discarded skins and trash. When you prepare ahead and keep cleaning up as you go along, it really is easy to move through a complicated recipe. Working with a group (my group had four members) allowed us to divide up tasks and even some full recipes. I worked on Caponata while my tablemate, Ray, a visiting Aussie, made homemade mozzarella cheese. My group also made Shrimp with Tomatoes, Oregano & Feta and homemade pita bread.
Dan - One of our recipes was Salt Cod Fritters with Romesco Sauce. My first thought was “ew” because my mother made me creamed cod as a child and I hated it. We also prepared Grilled Lamb Brochettes with Parsley, Lemon & Walnut sauce and a Turkish salad. Ten minutes into the kitchen adventure, I had my first cut. It was a deep one and I ran over to the supply closet for my first of several band aids of the day. I could see Vikki smirking already!
Vikki – Watching the complex recipes made easy with great preparation is an eye–opening experience. I also loved learning the chef’s tips. The first was using only kosher salt for cooking. Why? Because it has flat edges and is larger. The second is that removing all seeds from veggies gives a look of polished refinement in the food presentation. Third, rinsing anchovies can allow even anchovy haters to enjoy the added taste to a dish because it removes the fishiness.
Something that really struck a cord in me was that you can eat delicious gourmet food and still look good and be healthy. It amazed me that Chef Ainsworth, who was just a couple years younger than Dan and I, looked 20 years younger. He said he hasn’t eaten processed foods in many years. It just shows that you truly are what you eat. He eats healthy, but doesn’t deprive himself and the proof is in his appearance. Oh boy – Dan has just cut himself, he is running for band aids. This is very entertaining!
Several times during the cooking session, we were given group demonstrations by Chef Ainsworth. He demonstrated pasta-making and gnocchi-pinching, as well as how to make mozzarella cheese from cheese curd.
Other groups made dishes including Zucchini with Sweet & Sour Sauce, Macedonian Leek & Walnut Roll, and the group favorite—Turkish Briks. This was made with capers, canned tuna, parmesan cheese, parsley, egg yokes and is wrapped in Chinese spring roll skins and then fried. This was certainly an eye-opening, out-of the-box recipe.
At 1:45pm, we brought all of our prepared dishes to a table in the kitchen to many “oohs and ahhs” and it was finally time to dig in. Buffet style serving is the only way to go with 21 dishes! Vikki – This was an absolutely fun and rewarding experience. I’m already looking forward to bringing along friends and trying other classes.
Dan - This is definitely the best part. I am proud of what was pulled off. I only cut myself twice, but did not need stitches like the guy in the class next door. And, the saltwater fritters were excellent! Entertaining etiquette Simple tips for a perfect gatheringYou’ve spent the entire day cooking the perfect feast. But it’s an hour before your guests arrive, and you find yourself standing in front of the table, listening to a little nagging voice in your head. Does the knife go on the left, fork on the right, or is it the other way around? Is that centerpiece too tall? Should I go ahead and put food on table before guests arrive, or do I wait until everyone gets here?
If you can’t answer those questions, don’t feel alone. In today’s eat-on-the-run world, you’re not the only one to flunk the dos and don’ts of proper etiquette. “Proper table manners have become a lost art,” says etiquette expert Jill Slatter. “Think back 15 or 20 years ago, families gathered every evening for a proper meal. But these days we’re all stretched so thin juggling work, school and home, most folks don’t have time to sit down together, so when holidays roll around no one’s sure how to act at a formal meal.”
Slatter is an etiquette coach at Greensboro, N.C.-based Replacements, Ltd., the world’s largest supplier of old and new china, silver, crystal and collectibles. The company gets bombarded with questions this time of year from folks looking for a crash course in proper table manners. She says the answers to their most frequently asked questions are sure to help you dazzle your guests.
Set the perfect table • Forks to the left, knives and spoons to the right. Only set out utensils that will be used for various courses. “If you’re not serving soup or salad, you certainly don’t want an extra spoon or fork in your place setting,” Slatter says. “Not only will those get in the way, the extra utensils may confuse your guests.”
• The bread plate goes on the left of the dinner plate, glasses on the right.
• Wait to pour. Water glasses should be the only glasses filled before your guests arrive. Iced tea, wine and other beverages should be poured once everyone is seated. Wine should be filled halfway, not to the rim.
• Salad and bread should be the only food on the table when your guests arrive.
• Courses are generally served in the following order in the United States: appetizer, soup, salad, main course, dessert.
Be a gracious guest • Avoid the smear. Female guests should blot their lips before sitting down at the table. This will keep you from getting lipstick stains on linen napkins or glasses, which could be hard to get out. • Wait for the signal. Your host will let you know when it’s okay to dig in. They may make a prayer or statement or start by passing a dish.
• If you’re not sure which utensil to use with each course, start on the outside and work in toward the plate. If you’re still not sure, watch your host.
• Don’t cut more than one or two bites of food at a time, and never butter an entire roll or piece of bread. Instead, pinch off pieces small enough for one or two bites and butter those first.
• What about those scraps? Neatly push leftover food, fat trimmings, etc. to one side of your plate.
• If you don’t care for coffee, simply say “no thank you.” Turning your cup upside down may be considered rude.
• If you need to excuse yourself temporarily, gently place your napkin in your chair. Signify you’re finished with the meal by placing napkin to the left of the dinner plate. “Most folks aren’t sure what to do with their utensils once they have finished eating,” adds Slatter. “The common way to show that you’ve finished your meal is to lay your fork and knife diagonally across your plate at ten and four o’clock. Place your knife and fork side by side, with the sharp side of the knife blade facing inward and the fork, tines down, to the left of the knife.”
Are you the hostess with the mostest? • Remember, the hostess is always last seated.
• Unscented candles are a great part of holiday decor, but should only be lit during the evening. “Another thing to keep in mind, flickering candles are more than a distraction, those can cause headaches,” warns Slatter. “That’s why you never want to place burning candles directly in front of your guest, and make sure you situate the flame below eye level.”
• Centerpiece too tall? Sure those flowers you spent hours arranging are pretty, but will only get in the way if your guests have to crane their necks to look at each other. Make sure your guests can see over any table adornments.
• Passing isn’t just in football. Always pass food around the table counter clockwise to the right and refrain from serving yourself first. Always pass the salt and pepper as a set, even if you’re only asked for one. If you’re still in doubt, a cheat sheet is just a mouse click away. You can find place setting guides outlining the correct layout for all meals at www.replacements.com, under the site’s “neat things” tab. With these tips in mind, you’re sure to throw the perfect holiday gathering! Courtesy of ARAcontent Consumer Supported AgricultureA new way of grocery shopping from an old way of lifeBy LP Clark Two years ago, in an effort to be more conscientious consumers, my husband and I signed up to split a Consumer Supported Agriculture (CSA) share with some friends of ours. With all of the media attention being paid to the pros and cons of local versus organic, joining the Denison Farm CSA (www.denisonfarm.com) run by Brian and Justine Denison, was the best of both worlds – local and organic. Their farm is located in the Rensselaer County town of Schaghticoke. This CSA is one of a few in the area that I found online (www.localharvest.org). I chose them because of the convenient pick-up location in Albany, but there are also locations in Clifton Park, Delmar and the Troy Farmer’s Market.
Even though we wrote a large check months in advance for produce we would consume over the upcoming summer, there was much excitement and little apprehension. When it came time to start picking up the vegetables and using them, I soon realized that this was very different from picking up my weekly veggies at the grocery store. Celeriac? What the heck am I supposed to do with celeriac? Not to mention what is celeriac? And where are the tomatoes I like to have every week? We were learning the lesson of seasonal eating—eating what is available because it is the right time of year for it to grow.
Belonging to a CSA means being at Mother Nature’s will. This year, growing conditions were favorable. We got an abundance of cucumbers, eggplant, beets and lettuce. But, she is not always so kind. At the beginning of last spring we missed out on some vegetables due to the flooding. Luckily though, certain vegetables such as kale grow very well in a lot of moisture.
Every week on the day that we are supposed to pick up our share, Justine sends us an email telling us how the previous week of farming went, what to expect in our share and why. For instance, one week we had some dented squash and zucchini due to the nickel sized hail the area had. I would have never learned any of this from shopping in a grocery store, where most of the produce is grown in California.
This correspondence creates a direct connection for us to the farmer. I certainly feel more responsible for using all of the food that we receive in the share knowing the trials, tribulations and hard work that go into growing food organically in the Capital Region.
In terms of utilizing the vegetables in the share, it is fortunate that we are not picky eaters, not to mention reasonably proficient in the kitchen. It is helpful to know how to braise and to be familiar with the different vegetables’ needs in terms of cooking methods and times. For instance, kale and leeks need to be cooked slowly for a long period of time in order to get rid of their natural toughness, but spinach and Swiss chard cook relatively quickly under high heat such as steaming or sautéing. We also utilize our Cooking Light magazine subscription via the Internet to continue to use the vegetables in new and exciting recipes. The Denison Farm recognizes people may have a hard time using vegetables that are new to them and conveniently provides share members with delicious recipes and tips on preparation (Justine’s recipe for stuffed green peppers is below).
A full share of vegetables is $420 for a 22-week season. Some shares require members to do a minimal amount of labor. Denison Farm doesn’t, but they do offer the option of performing eight hours of work which could involve farm work like weeding or helping to package the CSA on Tuesdays, which will shave $40 off the price of the share.
The share generally provides between 8-12 items a week, estimated to feed a family of two adults and two children. The calculation comes out to $20 a week, which, judging from the cost of organic food in the grocery store, would cost more, and grocery store produce is often not local. Local is important because it means that the food was allowed to ripen in its natural environment, which results in better flavor, instead of in the back of a trailer where there are remnants of a long journey, like trucking exhaust. Trekking to Troy Farmer’s Market, where you can find the Denison’s every Saturday, or stopping by a local farm stand would yield a similar result, but there is something about paying the farmer up front and dedicating yourself to weekly pick–up that results in a larger commitment to eating in this healthy way.
The final and most important aspect of this experience is that the food is delicious. Some of the vegetables, and especially the fruit, have more flavor than any that could be had from a grocery store. It is the reward of having a garden, without all of the work. We look forward to Wednesdays with the enthusiasm of kids looking forward to Christmas; but it doesn’t happen once a year, it happens once a week for 22 weeks. If this is something that you have considered, I am confident in saying you will not be disappointed. Our experience in the first year prompted us to get our own share this year and to also purchase the fruit share. It is without a doubt the best way to eat, as well as being an excellent investment in our community and our health. Reap what you sowFarmers and chefs working togetherBy Francesca Bruno The food that’s on your table didn’t get there by accident or way of magic. Chef Larry Schepici, who is actively promoting a collaborative effort between chefs and farmers, knows this for sure. Schepici, owner of both Tosca Grille and Illium Café in downtown Troy, has been a staunch supporter of local farms since his early culinary days in Boston, where he worked with the Chefs Collaborative preparing meals for special events and fundraisers that showcased fresh, local foods.
“I thought it was the coolest thing in the world,” said Schepici of the symbiotic relationships he witnessed between chefs and farmers.
The Chefs Collaborative, a non-profit founded in 1993, is an organization made up of over a thousand members in various food-related professions who share a concern about running “economically healthy, sustainable food service businesses.” Chefs and other professionals can become members by donating to the organization, which is a nationwide effort based in Boston.
As a member of the Chefs Collaborative, Schepici emphasizes the importance of “sustainable cuisine” through education efforts in schools and at table. He has visited classrooms at the Tamarac schools in Brunswick to educate kids about the importance of local farms and the role of farming across the country and around the world.
“You have to start with young kids and let them know,” he stressed.
In both restaurants, Schepici also makes sure his menu features local, seasonal produce. Reaching out to farms right down the road from his home in Brunswick, Schepici picks out and purchases crops ahead of time from the farmers, uses as much as he can, and distributes the rest to other local chefs. He also occasionally holds special five- to seven-course meals at Tosca that display the local farmers’ food, noting names and locations right on the menu—a practice he carried with him down to New York City when he was invited to cook at the prestigious James Beard House.
“I respect farmers more than any other job in the world,” said Schepici. “They’re working 24/7. You have to put so much energy in, like chefs do.”
Schepici is furthering his promotion of farm-fresh food with a new organic foods store, Le Marche Vert, next to Tosca Grille on Broadway. Slated to open this month, Le Marche Vert (or “The Green Market”) will feature an array of local produce, as well as artisan cheeses and breads, game meats, fish, and handmade chocolates. In addition to eco-friendly heating and lighting, the construction materials and most of the décor will be either recycled or antique. In the spirit of local partnerships, Schepici has been working with Elizabeth Young, owner of The Living Room and downtown Troy business neighbor, on such unique interior pieces as an antique copper chandelier. The store, which will also offer products such as high-end cooking gadgets, will eventually host cooking classes as well. Different countries, different customsBy Jill Vallecorsa Not unless I was able to dine in Candyland would I ever imagine that sprinkles would be a breakfast option. Sitting down to my first breakfast in Holland this past summer, I was surprised to notice a bowl of chocolate sprinkles in the center of the table. Was there a Dutch tradition of making sundaes at 9am that I wasn’t told about? Not so. Apparently, a common Dutch breakfast consists of buttered bread fully-coated in a layer of Hagelslag (sprinkles). With a sugar-coated meal to start the day, I had to wonder what I was in store for at lunch. What I discovered was that the Dutch love French fries. Fries I could deal with, but smothering them in mayonnaise was not something my arteries were up for trying. Mayonnaise is like ketchup to them; it’s even sold in bottles labeled “Fry Sauce.”
Dinner brought about something new for the American taste buds as well. A typical dressing for grilled steak and pork is a rich peanut sauce. The sauce is served warm and resembles melted peanut butter. Peanut sauce is bit strong for newcomers, but it seemed to grow on the palate of some of my companions very quickly.
The lesson learned from this trip is that every country has something different to offer the appetite, and what is considered typical in a foreign land may make outsiders a little queasy. I had to wonder what a person from Holland would think of some of the food offered in America. Would they enjoy peanut butter and fluff sandwiches, corn dogs or Jell-O?
Trips to a different country are a great experience, but it is important to keep an open mind. Here are some interesting foreign dishes to try if you dare!
Mediterranean - A common meal in the Mediterranean region is a boiled sheep’s head. Every part of the head is cooked and eaten.
Scotland - Haggis is a trademark dish of this country that consists of steamed sheep’s stomach stuffed with the animal’s heart, liver, lungs, and mixed with oatmeal, onions, and spices. For dessert, try a fried Mars Bar, which is literally a deep-fried version of the candy bar.
England - In the UK a traditional breakfast is a fry-up. This morning meal consists of eggs, bacon, and black pudding. The pudding is actually a sausage made from pig’s blood, bread, and fat.
Australia - The famous Vegemite is the equivalent of peanut butter for Americans. It’s a dark brown, thick paste with a salty taste, made from yeast extract. Australians typically use it as a spread for toast or on sandwiches.
Ukraine - Salo is a popular dish for Ukrainians. It is a meat slab taken from the fatty under-skin of pork and is usually salted. This dish is served either raw or fried.
East Africa - Grasshoppers are prepared and eaten in a variety of ways. These jumpy insects are eaten whole, roasted, fried or are ground into flour.
Sweden/Holland - A popular treat in these countries is salt licorice. More spicy and salty than it is sweet, this is a very different type of licorice than the American version.
Japan - Seaweed, that nice slimy plant that clings to you when you swim in the ocean, is a main component of the Japanese diet. It is used to wrap sushi and dried fish, in soups and broth, for sautéing, as well as an accent in rice dishes.
China - A sea cucumber is a leathery-skinned creature that resembles its namesake and roams the ocean floor. It is also a popular dish in Chinese households. The sea cucumber is used in stews and soups and often takes days to prepare. Mexico - Mole poblano sauce is usually served over turkey and is made from the combination of chocolate, dried chili peppers, nuts and many different spices. Wine & cheeseProof that heaven is here on EarthBy LP Clark Charles de Gaulle once boasted that France has 264 varieties of cheese. It’s even more renown for its wine. Yet, heaven lies in the joining of the right wine with right cheese, and the beauty of consuming wine and cheese is that someone has already labored over its preparation and all that is left to do is open and enjoy. Easy, right? Not exactly. Wine snobbery is rampant, and the average diner can be intimidated at the thought of ordering it. Add to this the daunting task of selecting the right cheese to accompany the wine and the anxiety becomes too much to bear. Before you know it, you’re drinking a beer and eating calamari (not that there’s anything wrong with that). But for people who enjoy food, the pleasure of wine and cheese should not be missed, and the sooner you begin enjoying it, the better you get at it, and it’s a wondrous cycle that starts with ordering.
The starting point is simple: know what you like and work from there. Cheese is something that most people are familiar with. If you don’t like a stinky, pungent cheese like Limburger, pairing the perfect wine with it is not going to make you like it. Focus on two spectrums when ordering – one of taste (mild to sharp), the other of texture (soft to hard). If you know your preferences within these spectrums, ordering becomes easier. Besides, any waiter worth his salt will be able to assist in the final decision if you’re unsure.
Pairing a wine can be simple once you know the cheese. As the saying goes, “what grows together goes together”, meaning regional similarity is something to key in on. If the cheese hails from Italy, then pick an Italian wine that will have the same body as the cheese. Neither the wine nor the cheese should overpower the other; the goal is to synergize the flavors. Still, the rule should be that there are no rules—experiment, savor, and enjoy. Grab a friend or that special someone, make up a reason to not cook and head out to the following haunts to get started.
We started our wine and cheese tour at the The Ginger Man on Western Avenue in Albany. It’s a great place for the novice to start for a few reasons. First, you will recognize several of the choices: a Dubliner cheddar, fresh mozzarella, smoked gouda and provolone, along with some you may have heard of, but never tried, like asiago and stilton. This means that you can be as adventurous as you want, but still stay with some familiar choices. Second, the small plate has a total of six ounces of cheese, the large has a total of nine ounces, which come with a generous amount of fruit, a side of apple jelly, breads and crackers. It is a meal for two for less than $20 dollars, representing an outstanding value. A nice touch at the Ginger Man is that they also feature three fresh cheeses, which they make themselves.
I chose the Italian theme—asiago, provolone and boursin, one of their homemade cheeses. In concert with my theme, I ordered an Italian Pinot Grigio, while (Darling Dinner Date) D3 opted to go with a Rioja that was on special. It made for a perfect dinner. The boursin, a spreadable goat cheese, had herbs and garlic folded into it and was creamy and mild, yet flavorful. The provolone was not at all like the kind you might be used to ordering on a sub. This was sharp enough to take your breath away, but absolutely delicious and without a doubt, the strongest flavor on the board. Finally, the asiago was a happy medium– a hard cheese with a moderate sharpness and a creamy finish. The Pinot Grigio held up well as it was slightly heavier than most, so the flavors of the cheese did not completely overpower the taste of the wine. We left completely sated with a doggie bag, and the bill was a mere $33.
Vin Santo Tapas and Wine Bar in Latham Farms offers a slightly more specialized cheese plate. In line with their Spanish tapas theme, the cheese selection is heavily Spanish. We figured, why stray from the restaurant’s specialty? D3 chose the manchego, Spain’s most popular cheese named after the La Mancha region; it’s a sheep’s milk cheese that varies in flavor according to how long it is aged. This particular manchego was mild and creamy, with a nutty finish. If you like Pecorino Romano cheese, you should enjoy this. The next cheese was my choice, Urgelia, a cow’s milk cheese, also from Spain. It only took one bite for me to recognize D3 would be enjoying the rest on his own. It was pungent and smoky, a combination he enjoys, but I do not, however, nothing ventured nothing gained. The final cheese was a Romao, a Spanish sheep’s milk cheese cured in rosemary and olive oil. The brine was solid rosemary and slightly overwhelming, but the cheese had an enjoyable fresh flavor. It came with toasted baguette and a gewürztraminer grape marmalade that we enjoyed to every last drop. The Cortijo Rioja was a perfect complement to the medley of flavors, medium bodied with a fruit and spice character. Again, the total bill was $33, a nice experience. However the portion size was more the start of something, rather than a meal.
The Wine Bar on Broadway in Saratoga is a more advanced venue for the savoring of wine and cheese. In the spirit of Saratoga, I chose my cheeses just like I choose my horses, on name alone–the Lazy Lady LaRoche, a soft goat cheese; the Dancing Ewe Prima Caciotta, a semi firm cow’s milk cheese; the Dancing Cow Bourre and the Cobb Hill Ascutney Mountain; a firm cow’s milk cheese. The cheese selection is mainly local with a majority of them coming from Vermont including three of our selections, with the exception of the Dancing Ewe, which was from New York. It was a good thing that D3 was with me, otherwise much of the plate would have gone uneaten, as all but the Cobb Hill cheese had extremely pungent and gamy flavors. The Cobb Hill was a firm and rich cheese in the same family as Swiss cheese and much more to my liking. This was where having the wine made the cheese all the more palatable. With the help of a white Spanish Rioja, the strawberries, nuts and peach puree on the plate, I was able to enjoy some of the pungent cheeses. This cheese plate also happened to be the most expensive of the three places visited and had the least amount of cheese and accompaniments. Overall, due to my dislike of gamy flavors and the scant portion size, this represented the least value of all of the cheese plates, with the total bill being $40. Perhaps if I am able to build my repertoire of acquired tastes it will be worth a trip back, but for the aspiring connoisseur it is a must–do on the Capital Region wine and cheese tour.
I hope that I have piqued your interest in exploring this institution of culinary delight. In the words of the famous food writer MFK Fisher, “Wine and cheese are ageless companions, like aspirin and aches, or June and moon, or good people and noble ventures.” Make it your next adventure in food.

Apples to apples…to vodkaBy Francesca Bruno This is the time of year when many upstate New Yorkers are rushing to their local farms for a favorite seasonal beverage: apple cider. But soon you may start seeing something else—a more refined beverage made from apples. No, it’s not hard cider; in fact, it doesn’t even taste like apples. The product is vodka. And it just might be coming to a liquor store near you.
That’s the hope of Derek Grout of Golden Harvest Farm in Valatie, a family-owned and operated business, known at this time of year for their apples and delectable cider donuts. The farm itself dates back to the 1940s, when Dan and Madeline Zinke purchased it, turning the 50-acres of land into a viable orchard, complete with a cold storage building and partially-enclosed farm market.
A third generation member of the founding family, retail manager Derek Grout had visions of bigger things for the modest farm, located just south of Albany. Two-and-a-half years ago, his friend-turned-businesspartner Tom Crowell suggested the idea of making vodka from apples. They attended a seminar at a winery in New Hampshire, viewed a demonstration and soon after, the two formed Harvest Spirits.
“There’s limitless sales potential in this,” said Grout. “We have plenty of apples and can press them year round.” Apples, like other vegetables or fruits, can be made into vodka because they contain sugars. Traditionally, vodkas have been made with potatoes or corn, but the use of the apple has been catching on in places like Scotland and Germany. Grout would be one of the few businesses in the area that distill from a “single-source” location; and as far as apples go, the concept of vodka made from the fruit is still a fairly unique idea in this area. Its potential profitability was certainly a plus for Grout.
“We’re taking the cider apple surplus, which is worth five cents a pound, and bottling it to get a higher value,” he said.
At 1,000 gallons of cider per 50-60 gallons of actual vodka, that’s not bad. The first batch probably won’t be available for shipping for about a month. That’s because Harvest Spirits will be conducting batch rather than continuous distilling—heating 100 gallons of cider at a time—as well as closely monitoring the temperature to make sure it’s just right. Although there’s no aging involved, the process is a maze of pipes, heating and cooling, and alcohol separation.
“It’s very much like refining crude oil,” said Grout.
The creation of Harvest Spirits comes on the heels of new legislation passed by Governor Eliot Spitzer that allows farm-based distilleries to sell to consumers and set up tasting rooms. However, Grout admits that it’s been a slow process. Even though they’ve had the equipment since April, they’re still waiting for their license. The Alcohol and Tobacco Tax and Trade Bureau, which handles the licensing process for wineries and distilleries in the United States, requires operators to purchase equipment first, before talks of licensure can even begin. So while it’s already taken them six months to get a hold of the equipment (plus two-and-a-half days to set it up), it will be at least another six months from that purchase until they can legally operate.
Grout, who pointed out the tags that still dangle from the pipes and tanks, is raring to go. For one thing, the bottles have been ordered and the marketing plan is nearly complete. The vodka is to be called “Core,” a double entendre referring to both the apples from which it is made and the “core” tank of the machinery where the vodka is processed. Since the drink itself will have a “neutral taste”—because any actual apple flavor would have to be artificially added and an apple-flavored vodka would “pigeonhole” their product—Grout and Crowell decided to move away from an apple theme on the label, relying only on the brand name to convey the vodka’s origins and a “distilled in small batches” script below to inform the consumer of its handmade quality. The bottle itself will be simplistic, squat and silk-screened. To develop the product, Grout sought the help of a marketing firm out of San Francisco and a marketer with whom Grout once worked when he was in the field himself in Boston.
“People are getting mind-numbing marketing thrown at them,” said Grout, who added that conducting studies would only provide them with a guess of what people might want. “We’re trying to look more expensive, but position ourselves away from the other vodkas that are already out there.”
While ambitions are high, for now they’re realistic. Grout says Harvest Spirits will be doing their own distribution to cut back on costs and distributing only to liquor stores in Valatie and Kinderhook. But he’s also hoping that word will spread, as New York City residents travel and take up second homes in the upstate area and perhaps bring some Core vodka back down to the city with them. Although their marketing niche has yet to be determined, Grout is relying on customers’ knowledge, tastes and desire to buy local.
Where the business will go once it has started up is uncertain as of yet. Grout says they probably won’t be focusing on making vodka from other fruits, adding that his decision to do so was influenced by his father Alan’s penchant for their apple crop. He also doubts internet sales. But Grout did express some interest in making a gin or vanilla infused vodka at some point, trying to keep the flavors as natural as possible.
While making an educated guess that the future of drinks will be more refined, not knowing if this particular venture will yield profit hasn’t phased Grout, who notes that his first duty is to helping to run the farm. “We’re taking a giant leap forward,” he said.
Golden Harvest is located at 3074 US Route 9 in Valatie. For more information call 758.7683 or go to www.goldenharvestfarms.com. 9 nifty things to do this fallBy Francesca Bruno Check out the leaves Main Street / Route 7A Manchester, VT www.manchestervermont.net Mohonk Mountain House New Paltz www.mohonk.com Adirondack Scenic Railroad Lake Placid to Saranac Lake www.adirondackrr.com
Take a hike Prospect Mountain Lake George www.adk.org/trails Appalachian Trail: Glastenbury Mountain Bennington, VT www.appalachiantrai.org Mount Greylock Summit Lanesborough, MA www.mass.gov/dcr/parks/mtGreylock
Visit a winery Windham Vineyard and Winery Windham www.windhamvineyard.com Brookview Station at Goold’s Orchard Castleton www.brookviewstationwinery.com Hudson-Chatham Winery Ghent www.hudson-chathamwinery.com
Go apple or pumpkin picking Bellinger’s Orchard Fultonville www.bellingersorchard.com Bowman Orchards Rexford www.bowmanorchards.com Indian Ladder Farms Altamont www.indianladderfarms.com
Lose yourself in a corn maze Liberty Ridge Farms Schaghticoke www.libertyridgefarmmaze.com Ellms Family Farm Ballston Spa www.ellmsfarms.com Hull-O Farms Durham www.hull-o.com
Go for a bike ride Erastus Corning Riverside Preserve Albany www.albany.org Mohawk-Hudson Colonie Trail www.geocities.com/mhbway Bikeway Niskayuna Trail www.geocities.com/mhbway Bikeway Rotterdam Trail www.geocities.com/mhbway Ashuwillticook Rail Trail Lanesborough, Cheshire, Adams, MA www.mass.gov/dcr
Enjoy a hot air balloon ride Adirondack Balloon Flights Glens Falls www.adkballoonflights.com Blue Sky Balloons Beacon www.blueskyballoons.com Above Reality Hot Air Balloon Rides Jericho, VT www.balloonvermont.com
Knit something warm Wool’N’Word West Sand Lake hometown.aol.com/sbo12441 BeauKnits Ltd. Cohoes www.beauknitsltd.com Saratoga Needle Arts Saratoga Springs www.saratoganeedlearts.com
Decorate for the season Christmas Tree Shops Albany www.christmastreeshops.com Wit’s End Giftique Clifton Park www.witsendgiftique.com Deanna’s Country Shoppe West Sand Lake 283.6252 Haunted Upstate New YorkAs with every Halloween season, ghost stories and spooky tales light fires to our imaginations. Was that just the wind making that noise? Is there something lurking in the shadows? While this month may make our minds play tricks on us, being scared is all part of Halloween fun. Below is a listing of places around the Capital Region that may have you checking over your shoulder should you ever visit.
Sage College in Albany - The graphic design building on campus is rumored to host the spirits of children who died in a fire long ago when it was a children’s sanitarium.
College of Saint Rose in Albany - Many students have reported sightings of ghostly figures in four of the houses. A little girl killed in a fire, a priest, a musician who committed suicide and a deceased gardener are said to be responsible for the hauntings.
Professor Java’s Coffee Sanctuary on Wolf Road - It is said that the ghost of a middle-age man haunts the building. He is sometimes spotted briefly in mirrors and likes to switch the lights on and off and create noise at night.
Hunters Woods in Ballston Lake - Strange sounds can be heard late at night coming from the woods. Reports of children’s laughter and gun shots occur at times. Legend has it that in the 1500s over 60 people were murdered in these woods.
Cohoes Music Hall - A ghost named the Black Lady is reported to haunt the balcony of the music hall. Wearing 1930s-style fashions, this specter has an angry look in her eyes and can sometimes be spotted in mirrors.
The Cohoes Falls - Only at the full moon can a little Indian girl be seen trying to paddle against the rapids.
Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown - The ghost of famed baseball player “Shoeless” Joe Jackson is said to roam the halls after hours. Several sounds can be heard like glass breaking when nothing is broken, a ball being hit, and the cheers of a crowd. “Shoeless” Joe also likes to complain about not being inducted into the Hall of Fame.
Revelatory Hero’s Cemetery in Latham- This graveyard for about a dozen Revolutionary War soldiers is rumored to be haunted on full moons. Voices of men, as well as the sound of drums, can be heard at night.
Loudon Cottage in Loudonville - This house was once owned by Clara Harris, the woman who was sitting next to President Lincoln when he was assassinated. Her ghost, as well as Lincoln’s, has been spotted here.
Adelphi Hotel in Saratoga Springs - A ghostly woman in a blue Victorian dress likes to open and shut doors and windows, as well as switch lights on and off.
Vale Cemetery in Schenectady - Spirits tend to roam the graves as well as sit in the trees at night. Some of the statues are said to bleed from their eyes and even from the tops of their heads at night.
Forest Park Cemetery in Troy - Rumored to have been built over an ancient Indian burial ground, this cemetery is now haunted by these Indian spirits.
Big Moose Lake in the Adirondack Mountains - In the early 1900s, Chester Gilette drowned his girlfriend Grace Brown in the lake. Grace is reportedly seen out on the lake or haunting a cabin she once lived in. The 1951 movie “A Place in the Sun” was based on the tragic story. For more information on these stories as well as other haunted places around New York, please visit: www.theshadowlands.net. The last hoorahs of summerBy Francesca Bruno Summer lovers, fear not. Though fall has arrived, there are a variety of activities reminiscent of those warm days that carry on through the fall, some even into the winter. For those of you clinging onto that last ray of summer sun, here’s a sampling of what the area has to offer.
Hi-Way Drive-In | Coxsackie www.hiwaydrivein.com 731.8672 Located on Route 9W, seven miles north of Catskill and five miles south of NY State Thruway exit 21-B, this 1950s-era drive-in features three screens, each with a different double feature. Although no longer open seven nights a week as it is during the summer season, Hi-Way remains open on weekend nights through the month of October.
El Rancho Drive-In Theatre | Palatine Bridge 673.3515 This drive-in, located west of Albany on Rural Route 5, has been operating since 1952. With a large, solo screen and the capacity for up to 400 cars, El Rancho continues its season through the month of October, open only on weekend nights during its closing weeks.
The Farm at Kristy’s | Schodack www.kristysbarn.com 477.6250 Miss picking your own fresh summer fruit? The seasons and produce may change, but you can still enjoy picking your own apples and pumpkins while roaming the orchards this fall at Kristy’s. And after an afternoon of harvesting, don’t forget to try their delicious cider and cider doughnuts.
Golden Harvest Farms | Valatie www.goldenharvestfarms.com 758.7683 Even though most farm stands close in the winter and spring, Golden Harvest stays open all year round. Come for the fall apple and pumpkin rush. And in January and February, even when there are slim pickings, their store always has complimentary hot mulled cider and fresh baked goods.
Troy Waterfront Farmers’ Market | Troy www.troymarket.org 321.5749 With both summer and winter seasons, this farmers’ market delivers freshness all year round. The summer market, which consists of an outdoor venue full of great food and good music, continues on through the month of October. And in November, when the winter market kicks in, you can browse around for the same great products indoors.
At the Warehouse Farmers’ Market | Albany www.atthewarehouse.net 431.0606 This downtown farmers’ market operates every Saturday and Sunday morning through afternoon, moving indoors when the cold weather hits. Crafts and antiques venders run their operations a little later into the afternoon.
Toll Gate Ice Cream | Slingerlands 439.9824 A step back in time to the malt shops and burger joints of yesteryear, Tollgate offers their homemade ice creams all year round. During the fall season, you may want to keep an eye out for their autumnal flavors, like the ever-popular and tasty pumpkin. A must-stop destination no matter what time of year it is.
Pirate’s Cove Mini Golf | Queensbury www.piratescove.net/location/21 745.1887 Yaaarrr in for a good time at Pirate’s Cove, where mini-golfing meets high-seas adventure! Although their hours are subject to change (phone ahead in the fall to check), this upstate treasure remains open through the month of October.
FunPlex Fun Park | East Greenbush www.funplexfunpark.com 477.2651 A cluster of activities, including a miniature golf course, batting cage, basketball court (with some of the most warped and challenging backboards known to man) and go-kart race track, await you at FunPlex, just off of Routes 9 & 20. The facilities remain open Friday through Sunday during the month of October.
Great Escape | Lake George www.sixflags.com/greatescape 792.3500 Although this theme park is no longer open on weekdays and its Splashwater Kingdom water-themed park is closed as of the end of Labor Day weekend, the rides at Great Escape proper remain open on weekends through the end of October. And if you find yourself missing the water rides, be sure to check out their lodge and indoor water park.
John Boyd Thatcher State Park | Voorheesville nysparks.state.ny.us/parks 872.1237 This park may be open year round from morning till dusk, but its famed Indian Ladder Trail, offering sweeping mountain views, remains open only through November 15th, perfect for leaf peeping (weather permitting). Pack a picnic and head out into the Helderbergs!
Albany Aqua Ducks | Albany www.albanyaquaducks.com 462.3825 Take a ride through Albany’s historic districts with the Aqua Duck—an amphibious vehicle that concludes the tour with a ride into the Hudson River. The duck tours are offered through October, and the non-aquatic trolley theme tours are offered even later into the season.
Hudson River Maritime Museum Rondout Lighthouse Tours | Kingston www.ulster.net/~hrmm/rondout/tour 845.338.0071 Tours of the Rondout Lighthouse are available at the Museum from May through October. The lighthouse is located on the Hudson River at the mouth of Rondout Creek, a short boat trip from the museum. It’s always a good idea to check with the museum to confirm the availability of the lighthouse tours before planning a visit.
The Utica Zoo | Utica www.uticazoo.org 315.738.0472 Whoever said zoo visits were reserved for the summer? You can still get your fill of exotic and native animal exhibits at the Utica Zoo, which is open all year. The zoo has served the region for over 88 years and has grown from its small beginnings with three fallow deer to its present collection of over 200 animals. Easy ideas for bringing the beauty of fall into your home Bringing the look, feel and fragrances of fall into your home doesn’t have to mean hiring a decorator or going on an accessory buying frenzy at your local home design store. According to design experts at The Art Institutes schools, just a few simple and easy-to-do ideas can usher a beautiful and colorful autumn right into your home.
For Mary Saleeby, an Interior Design instructor at The Art Institute of New York City, the arrival of fall means, “It’s time to put summer behind us and escape into cranberries, pomegranates and lovely leaves.” In her Manhattan home, Saleeby likes to fill glass cylinders with Clementine’s and branches, and for a wonderful smell, insert four or six whole cloves into the fruit before making the arrangement or centerpiece. The cloves release their smell and the arrangement maintains it’s fragrance for weeks.
Pomegranates arranged in baskets are also a wonderful and affordable addition to creating a fall look for your home. Saleeby recommends taking a shallow dish or platter, lining the bottom with fresh cranberries, and insetting pumpkin scented pillar candles of various heights. “This idea works as a random arrangement or a centerpiece,” she says.
“Try adding an indoor fragrant wreath or swag designed for the season,” says Alma Yoss, an Interior Design instructor at The New England Institute of Art in Boston. Yoss, who lives in New Hampshire, likes to “locate the wreath close to the entry of a home and complement this with seasonal potpourri at strategic locations where people will be sitting or congregating.”
Changing the color of candles and throw pillows, Yoss suggests, is another inexpensive and creative way to change your decor seasonally.
And nothing says fall like mums. Mums are very affordable at most home garden centers, and can be found in all sorts of colors, sizes and varieties. “Mums are hearty, long-lasting plants. Fill wood baskets with mums, and place them throughout your home to add freshness and color,” recommends Mary Saleeby. If you live near the woods, use the great outdoors as your home design store. Saleeby likes to make door arrangements using acorns, dried leaves berries and dried apples.
Lastly, Saleeby says, “Use that special copper pot for mulled cider which will be simmering on your stove with a few cloves and cinnamon sticks.” For more information on The Art Institutes, visit www.artinstitutes.edu/nz. Courtesy of ARAcontent
Fall eventsAlbany CountyOctober 1-7 Albany’s 16th Annual Columbus Parade & Italian Festival – A great celebration of the Capital Region’s Italian culture and heritage culminates on October 6th with the parade. Weeklong celebration includes an Italian buffet, Italian Cinema Night, discussion of Italian heritage, Italian dining on a Dutch Apple Cruise, bocce tournament, and an Italian lunch and Aqua Ducks tour. For more info: www.columbusdayalbanyny.com. October 2-4 Fall Northeast Arts & Craft Show – A juried arts-and-crafts show with up to 75 exhibitors from throughout the northeast. 9am-3pm. Empire State Plaza, Albany. For more info: 786.1529. October 3; 5-7; 12-14; 19-21; 26-28 Ultimate Terrors: Premier Haunted Event of the Capital Region – Features three uniquely-themed haunted houses, over 70 "mostly live" actors, "freakish" live shows (three different stages), a dark museum, a paintball shooting gallery with live targets, two, vortex tunnels, air-brush tattoos, food vendors, and more. Not recommended for children under the age of 11. 6:30-9:30pm. Adults $21; children (6-11) $16. Altamont Fair Grounds, Altamont. For more info: 583.7767; www.ultimateterrors.com. October 4 Oktoberfest – Celebrate the Harvest the Old World Way. Tasty German food and drink specialties, Big Wally on the accordion, arts and crafts vendors all in a festival. Empire State Plaza, Albany. For more info: 473.0559; Convention.Center@ogs.state.ny.us. From October 9 Capitol Hauntings: A Special Halloween tour of the NYS Capitol – Does the night watchman who died in the Capitol fire of 1911 still make his rounds? Which two United States Presidents visited the Capitol after they died? What happened to the “lost” Capitol murals and their eccentric artist? Does the secret demon carved in stone hold a Capitol curse? Come to the New York State capitol for a special tour that explores these questions and other legends connected with this historic building. Monday-Friday, 12:30-3:30 pm. Free. Office of General Services, Empire State Plaza, Albany. For more info: 474.0538; www.ogs.state.ny.us. October 20 Oktoberfest Dinner-Dance – Live music provided by Big Wally. Delicious German dinner for $20 or $6 for live music and dancing. 6-11pm. German-American Club of Albany, 32 Cherry Street, Albany. For more info: 482.5845; www.timesunion.com/communities/gaca. October 20-21; 27-28 Haunted Museum and Pumpkin Patch – Thrills, chills, music and laughter return with the Pumpkin Patch and the “3,000-square-foot maze of pure terror” that is the Haunted Museum. Children are encouraged to come in costume and journey through the magical Pumpkin Patch. Additional activities include face-painting, take-home crafts and a holiday parade. Children 12 and under must be accompanied by an adult. Not recommended for children under 10 years of age. Proceeds benefit the Museum’s after-school programs. 11am-5pm. Children and adults $6 for Haunted Museum; $2 for Pumpkin Patch. New York State Museum, Albany. For more info: 474.5877; www.nysm.nysed.gov. October 27 Fall Weekend – Dinner and a jazz concert. Package includes a special wine tasting dinner prepared by Chef Joe Maloney and evening concert with musician Steve Wilson and pianist Helen Sung. $69/person ($15 concert only). Rensselaerville Meeting Center, Rensselaerville. For more info: 797-5100; www.RMeetingCenter.com. October 27 Macabre Music: The Mask of Red Death and other scary pieces – An hour-long presentation of excerpts from Musicians of Ma’alwyck special Halloween concert which promises to make you check under your bed before your turn out your light! 2pm. Free. Albany Heritage Area Visitors Center, Albany. For more info: 434.0405; accvb@albany.org. October 28 Macabre Music: Musicians of Ma´alwyck – This concert promises to put you in a Halloween frame of mind. A reception follows the performance. 4pm. $20 For those intrepid souls who want to experience a complete fright, the Oakwood Cemetery Association is offering a lantern tour of the cemetery at 6:30 for an additional $5. Gardner Earl Chapel, Oakwood Cemetery, Troy. For more info: 377.3623; www.musiciansofmaalwyck.org. Columbia CountyOctober 7 Autumn in Austerlitz – Early 19th century theme, games, crafts, exhibits, house tours, soup kitchen, children’s parade, quilt exhibit, silent auction and more. 11am-4pm Austerlitz Historical Society, Old Austerlitz Site, Route 22, Austerlitz. For more info: 392.0062; www.oldausterlitz.org. October 19 Legends by Candlelight – Candlelight tours of the museum grounds; ghosts and spooks of the museum’s history. 6pm-7pm. Clermont State Historic Site, Clermont. For more info: 537.4240; www.friendsofclermont.org. October 20 Halloween Harvest – Costume contests, pumpkin decorating, local farms and crafts, dog demonstrations, performers, music, and a tour of the museum grounds by candle light. 11am-7pm. Clermont State Historic Site, Clermont. For more info: 537.4240; www.friendsofclermont.org. October 27 Ghosts and the Victorians – Program starts by discussing ghosts in the Victorian Era, then head out for a sunset walk in the landscape. 4pm. Registration required. Olana State Historic Site, Route 9G, south of Hudson. For more info: 828.0135; www.olana.org. October 27 Haunted House – Copake Town Park, Mountain View Road, Copake. For more info: 329.1234; www.copake.org. Greene CountyOctober 5-7; 12-14; 19-21; 26-28 Massacre Mansion-Haunted House – Take a frightful guided tour in the scariest haunted house in the Catskills! Explore the house, dark maze and wolf hollow trail. Fri. & Sat. 7-11pm; Sun. 7-9pm. Blackthorne Resort, East Durham. For more info: 634.2541; www.blackthorneresort.com. October 6 Oktoberfest – Austrian and German-American bands, Schuhplatter dancers, vendors, puppet shows, jugglers, magicians, horse petting zoo, and food and drink. Free arts & crafts and free pumpkins for the kids. Hunter Mountain, Hunter. For more info: 1.888.HunterMtn; www.huntermtn.com October 6 Oktoberfest/Pig Roast – Fine German Cuisine & phenomenal pig roast. Great food, drink & people, music & games. Rain date Oct. 7th. Blackthorne Resort, East Durham. For more info: 634.2541; www.blackthorneresort.com. October 6 Fall Bulb Day – Purchase bulbs selected to do well in challenging garden situations, and join in planting more spring flowering bulbs in Woodland Walk. Cider and doughnuts for all volunteers! The Mountain Top Arboretum, Tannersville. For more info: 589.3903; Mtarbor@mhonline.net. October 6-7 13th Annual Windham Autumn Affair – Features a juried arts and crafts show with continuous live entertainment, food, Chinese auction and children’s entertainment. 10am-4pm. Village of Windham. For more info: 734.3852; www.windhamchamber.org. October 6-7 14th Annual Apple Harvest Festival – Apples, crafts, food, live entertainment. Hourly drawings. Sat. 10am-4pm; Sun. 9am-4pm. Angelo Canna Town Park, Cairo. $2. For more info: 622.3939; www.caironychamber.org. October 6-7 28th Annual Belleayre Fall Festival and Craft Fair - Featuring quality arts and crafts, a huge ski equipment and winter apparel sale and season pass specials, live music, German food and beer and lots of kids activities, plus the chairlift "Sky Ride" for foliage and hiking enthusiasts. 10am -5pm. Free; Sky Ride is $8 for adults, $5 for juniors (13-17), children under 12 free with paying adult. Belleayre Mountain (Overlook Lodge), Highmount. For more info: 845.254.5600 x428; nmsiepma@gw.dec.state.ny.us. October 13 Mountaintop Pumpkin Festival – Crafts, music, hayrides, pumpkin painting, BBQ, mini-golf, paintball, driving range charity raffle and more. 11am-4pm. Bear Creek Restaurant & Recreational Park, Hunter. For more info: 263.3839; www.mentgroup.com/events. October 26 Night of 100 Pumpkins – Bring your imagination to Catskill’s 4th Annual Pumpkin carving and illuminated Jack-O- Lantern parade. Multi-generation event. Pumpkins and supplies provided. Bring your own cart/wagon. 5:30pm-8pm. Raindate Oct. 27. Hose Co #5 Firehouse, Main St., Catskill. For more info: 943.1929. Otsego CountyThroughout October Candlelight Ghost Tours – Featuring two different tour routes, east side and west side Adults $10; children (ages 6-12) $8; under five free. All tours depart from Pioneer Park, located on the corner of Main and Pioneer streets. Reservations required. 7pm. For more info: 607.547.8070; www.cooperstownghost.com October 6-7 Fly Creek Cider Festival – Enjoy autumn’s most flavorful beverage, cider, at the peak of spectacular fall foliage. Observe cider making operations throughout the day using the Mill’s vintage equipment dating back to 1856. Sample our cider made without modern technology that provides a taste of NY’s water-powered past. For more info: 607.547.9692; www.flycreekcidermill.com. October 6-7 Fall Foliage Trains – Weekend Fall Foliage Trains with Cooperstown & Charlotte Valley Railroad, Round Trip. 1pm. For more info: 607.432.2429; www.lrhs.com. October 7 Middlefield Fall Festival & Craft Show – Community festival featuring local crafts, seasonal products, live music, food, hay maze, ghost stories, children’s activities. 10am-4pm. For more info: 607.547.9515; www.middlefieldmuseum.org. October 19-20, 26-27 Things that Go Bump in the Night – Listen to stories of hauntings and ghostly happenings that occurred at The Farmers’ Museum and in and around the region as you take a guided tour of the historic village by flashlight. Tour Times: 5pm, 5:30pm, 6pm, 6:30pm, 7pm, & 7:30pm. $7 per person; pre-registration required. For more info: 607.547.1450. October 20, 27 Halloween Express Train – Halloween Express Trains on the Cooperstown & Charlotte Valley Railroad. Adults $10, seniors $9, children 4-12 $7, under 4 free. 6pm. For more info: 607.432.2429; www.lrhs.com. October 27 Taste of Fly Creek Series at Fly Creek Cider Mill – Special sampling of Apple Salsa Day with Salsa Bob. Promotions and recipe ideas are paired for each day’s tasting. This featured sampling is in addition to the Mill’s daily sampling of over 40 different products. 9am-6pm. For more info: 607.547.9692; www.flycreekcidermill.com. October 28 Halloween Adventure Day with Scary Stories – Great things to make, pumpkin to decorate, a costume contest, scary stories in the evening and more. Noon-6:30pm. Regular cavern tours available from 9am-6pm; special character tours available. For more info: www.cooperstownchamber.org. October 31 Cooperstown Chamber of Commerce Annual Halloween Parade – From Cooper Park to the Firehouse. 6pm. For more info: 607.547.9983. Rensselaer CountyAll through October Fall Festival at Liberty Ridge Farm – Conquer the maze, play in the “Barnyard” full of activities for all ages, take a scenic trolley ride along the banks of the Hoosic River, pick pumpkins, feed the farm animals, enjoy a meal or fresh baked goods from the farm kitchen, or browse through the Country Store. Various times & special events. Liberty Ridge Farm, Schaghticoke. For more info: 664.1515; www.libertyridgefarmmaze.com. October 7 18th Annual Goold Orchard Apple Festival & Craft Show - This year’s festivities will include the all new Brookview Station Wine Tent with farm wineries from across New York State as well as the debut of the Brookview Station Winery’s Apple Wine. Featuring crafters and specialty food items, music by local artists, Poppytown Puppet Theatre shows at 10am, 12pm, 2pm and 4pm. 9am-5pm. Rain or shine. Goold Orchard, Castleton. For more info: www.goold.com. October 13 RiverSpark Annual Fall Foliage Bus Trip – Includes tour, bus, snacks, lunch and all materials. 9am. $59. For more info: 270.8667; info@riverpark.org. October 26-27 Storytelling Ghosts – Ghosts from the Mansion’s past coming to tell their stories. Souper supper served. 6-9:30pm. Knickerbocker Mansion, Schaghticoke. For more info: 677.3807 or 629.2374; www.knickmansion.com. October 28 Halloween Celebration – A dark play, eerie music and a scary tour. Discounted fee to all three events is $25/adult. Also, the Russell Sage Creative Arts Department presents The Turn of the Screw, to be presented in The Gardner Earl Memorial Chapel. 1pm-3pm. $10; limited seating. Chamber Music by The Musicians of Ma’alwyck; 4pm-6pm; $10; limited seating. Meet at the bell just beyond the chapel for a Halloween Flashlight Tour; 6:30pm. Adults $12, children 4-12 years $5. All persons under 19 must be accompanied by a parent or guardian. Call to register. Oakwood Cemetery, Troy. For more info: 800.556.6273. Saratoga CountyThroughout October Ghost walks - A 90-minute, mile-long tour of haunted village sites. Fri. & Sat. 7pm. Adults $10; children (7-11) $5. The Arts Center Gallery, Saratoga Springs. For more info: 584.4132. October 3 Nature Hike & Foliage Viewing - 10am. $5; $10 for families; free for P.L.A.N. members. Spruce Mountain, Corinth. For more info: 587.5554; laura@saratogaplan.org. October 7 Harvest Ball – Benefits Saratoga Bridges NYSARC, Saratoga Chapter. Saratoga Springs City Center, Saratoga. For more info: 584.0027. October 13 Autumn Festival – Live music, hands-on activities, demonstrations of traditional farm crafts by local artisans, bake sale and more. Waldorf School of Saratoga. 11am. $3. For more info: 584.7643. October 20 The Great Pumpkin Challenge Race - Certified by the USA Track & Field Adirondack Association, the run consists of a 5K road race, a 10K road race and a Children’s One-Mile Fun Run. Starts at 8:30am; 5K, 10K at 9:30am; Fun Run at 10:30am. Columbia Pavilion, Saratoga State Park. For more info: 587.0723; afuller@saratogabridges.com. October 21 Legend of Sleepy Hollow With the PuppeTree—Three Puppeteers use over 100 shadow puppets to present the popular Hudson River story by Washington Irving. Ages 5 and up. 2pm. Free. Community Room, Saratoga Springs Public Library. For more info: 584.7860. October 27 Haunted Walking Tour - Halloween ghost and history walking tour. 10am. Waterford Rural Cemetery. For more info: 238.0809. October 27 Fall Festival – Celebrate fall with a parade, activities and fireworks in the Village of Ballston Spa. For more info: www.saratoga.com. October 27-28 Fall Festival – Magic, music, face painting, sidewalk chalk contests, pony rides and more. 10am. Downtown Saratoga Springs. For more info: www.saratoga.com. Schenectady CountyOctober 5, 12, 19, 26 Ghost Tours of the Stockade – Costumed guides with antique lanterns leave every 15 minutes to lead you through the 300-year old Stockade neighborhood with chilling tales of ancient ghosts and long forgotten residents. 7pm. Stockade, Schenectady. For more info: 388.5128. October 8 Columbus Day Kids’ Activities – Celebrate the spirit of exploration by commemorating the 50th anniversary of space exploration with special kids’ activities and Planetarium shows at the top of the hour. 12:30pm-3:30pm. Free with Museum admission. Schenectady Museum & Suits-Bueche Planetarium, Schenectady. For more info: 382.7890; www.schenectadymuseum.org. October 13 Schenectady County Farm & Foliage Day – A day-long event designed to promote agriculture and tourism in Schenectady County, farms and organizations around the county will present family activities throughout the day – pumpkin painting, live music, scarecrow making, farm and garden tours, farm demonstrations, a corn maze, a foliage driving tour and much more. Exhibits by the 4-H, Girls & Boys Club, Cabot Cheese, Scotia Glenville Children’s Museum and more. Food from Mosall’s Grove. 11am-4pm. Free. For more info: 388.4355. Schoharie CountyThru October 31 Pick-A-Pumpkin Pumpkin Patch – Pumpkin picking, gourds, Indian corn, hay & cornstalks. Entertainment includes hayrides, Storybook land, farm animals, Halloween Shop, cider donuts, hay tunnel, crafts, tree house, mazes and food. Mon.-Fri., 3pm-8pm; Sat. 10am-8pm. Closed Sundays. Pick-A-Pumpkin Pumpkin Patch, 2716 Creek Road, Esperance. For more info: 868.4893; www.pickapumpkin.com. October 6 1st Annual Oktoberfest and Craft Show – 20+ fine craft vendors and family fun, including hay rides, face painting, removable tattoos, a bouncy bounce and more. Wurst, hot dogs, potato salad, hamburgers, cider donuts, cotton candy, carmel apples and much more. 10am-5pm. Esperance Elks Lodge 2507, Esperance. For more info: 895.2631. October 6-7 Garlic Festival & Fall Harvest Show – Garlic galore and a celebration of the fall harvest. Apples, cider, pumpkins, gourds, corn stalks, mums; cider donuts and pies on the weekends. Retail farm market, country gift shop, greenhouse & garden center. 9am-5pm. Sunnycrest Orchards Farm Market, Sharon Springs. For more info: 284.2256; www.sunnycrestorchards.com. October 13 Fall Workfest – Bring your friends and work gloves to the Landis Arboretum to help get the grounds ready for winter. 9am-3pm. Landis Arboretum, Esperance. For more info: 875.6935; www.landisarboretum.org. October 20 Meet the Author & Outdoor Walk – Author Anita Sanchez (The Teeth of the Lion: The Story of the Beloved and Despised Dandelion) presents an outdoor walk to study some common plants and their lore. 2pm-3:30pm.Landis Arboretum, Esperance. For more info: 875.6935; www.landisarboretum.org. October 26 Full Moon Owl Prowl – Learn about common owls — where they live, what they sound like, and what they do. George Steele, instructor. 7pm-8:30pm. $5 suggested donation. Landis Arboretum, Esperance. For more info: 875.6935; www.landisarboretum.org. October 26 25th Annual Halloween at Howe Caverns –The silver anniversary of this annual charity benefit takes visitors on a journey below the earth’s surface into the great “haunted cave” filled with monsters and giggles. 2007 proceeds benefit the Schoharie County ARC. Ticket sales from 5:30pm-8:30pm. Adults $10; children 12 and younger $5. discounts do not apply. For more info: www.cooperstownchamber.org. October 26-28 The 1st Schoharie Scary Horror Film Festival – The Schoharie Scary Horror Film Fest is an international competitive festival dedicated to showcasing new short films from the most audacious filmmakers working in the horror genre today. Non-profit, competitive festival. Times and prices TBA. Bouck Hall (SUNY Cobleskill), Knapp Hall 202, Cobleskill. For more info: 254.0611. October 27 Halloween Event – Costume parade & entertainment. 12-3pm. Visitor Center and Lansing Manor Museum, New York Power Authority, North Blenheim. For more info: 800.724.0309; www.nypa.gov. Warren CountyOctober 6 Pumpkin Festival – Petting zoo, pony rides, children’s activities, good food, music, pumpkin giveaway. 8am-12pm. South Street Pavilion, Glens Falls. For more info: 638.6301. October 6-7 Gore Mountain Harvest Festival – Family fun featuring scenic gondola rides, Adirondack vendors, live entertainment, kids’ activities, hearty fall food & drink. 10am-5pm. Free. Gore Mountain, North Creek. For more info: 251.2411. October 7 Gore Mountain Leaf Cruncher 5k Trail Run – Challenging annual 5k trail run. North Creek. For more info: 251.2411. October 7 Family Day – Fall activities make corn husk dolls, bean mosaics & play games from years past. 1pm-3pm. Free. Chapman Historical Museum, Glens Falls. For more info: 793.2826. October 12-13 Lake George Brewers’ Oktoberfest – Area brewers showcase their Oktoberfest beers with German music, food, fun! Canada St, Lake George. For more info: 668.0002. October 19-20 Haunted Trail & Barns – Creep along the wetland, be prepared for creatures lurking in the woods. Spooky fun inside the barns. Tricks & treats, wear your costume. All-weather event. Up Yonda Farm Environmental Education Center, Bolton Landing. For more info: 644.9767. October 21 Halloween Pug Parade & Party – Over 160 Pugs in costume on parade. Prizes for best costumes, several categories, raffles, food. Contest 12pm, parade at 1pm. Chestertown. For more info: 494.2758. October 27 Goblin Gallop – Fairly flat, fast course. Overall & age groups including wheelchair & walking divisions. Halloween Hop ?-mile Fun Run for ages 12 & under. 9am & 10am. Runners register, spectators free. Abraham Wing School, Glens Falls. For more info: www.adirondackrunners.com. October 27-28 Victorian Ghost Nights – A séance, Ouija board, ghost stories, tea leaves readings, and other Victorian pastimes in historic De Long House. 6pm-8pm. Chapman Historical Museum, Glens Falls. For more info: 793.2826. October 28 30th Annual Fall Coin, Stamp & Collectible Show – 10am-4pm. Free. VFW Post, Queensbury. For more info: 654.9585. October 28 Fall Fair – Baked goods, books, tapes, porch sale, jewelry, antiques & collectables, Christmas items, household items, linens. Raffle. 380 Glen St, Glens Falls. For more info: 793.2189. October 31 Halloween Costume Skate – Lake George Forum, Lake George. For more info: 668.2200.

Travel notes: Newport, RIBy Mary Beth DeCecco While many Capital Region residents like to get away to the beaches of Cape Cod, I dip further south on 495 for my favorite spot—Newport, RI. An idyllic, scenic town, Newport epitomizes the best that New England has to offer: picture perfect homes, tree lined streets, white picket fences, sailboats, history and more.
Located a mile east of Jamestown across the Newport (Pell) Bridge, Newport’s history dates back to colonial times, when it was an early center for shipbuilding and trading, as well as the birthplace of the Unites States Navy. In the 19th century, it became the focal point for trade with China and the whaling industry before becoming a playground for the wealthy during the Gilded Age.
Today, Newport is a major tourist attraction. It hosts the Jazz and Folk Festival and the Newport Music Festival, which draw thousands every summer.
To fully experience this special place, you should treat yourself to a stay at a quaint inn in the heart of town. Perfectly fitting that bill is The Hydrangea House Inn on Bellevue Avenue. The Hydrangea House offers a full gourmet breakfast (think scrambled eggs in puff pastry, raspberry pancakes, fresh fruit and granola) in an elegant dining room and plenty of personal recommendations from owners/innkeepers Dennis Blair and Grant Edmondson. On top of that, there is also off street parking, affording you the opportunity to park the car and enjoy the town on foot, getting to know it in a more intimate, personal way. In fact, the parking was one of the deciding factors for the pair when they purchased the property nearly 20 years ago. “That’s one of the reasons we loved the site,” said Edmondson. “This was one we thought we could make work because of the onsite parking, which is a premium in town.”
Checking in My fiancé and I arrived in Newport on Labor Day and weren’t the least bit surprised with the sheer volume of people and energy in town. After all, it’s a beach town and this was the unofficial last day of summer. We proceeded up America’s Cup Avenue to Bellevue Avenue, where we instantly glimpsed the lavender sign for the Hydrangea House Inn.
Upon entering the Inn, we were pleasantly greeted by Blair and Rosie, his friendly poodle. Always the curious one, I had to find out about the Inn’s history. I learned that it consisted of two properties—one dates back to 1876, the other to 1856. The downstairs has seen its share of retail shops over the years, including an ice cream parlor, a hair salon and a liquor store that was once patronized by King Edward following his abdication of the British throne.
Before Edmonson and Blair purchased the building, it was used as a dental office and accounting firm. Edmonson used his construction background to help with the initial remodeling, while Blair, a former antiques dealer and shopkeeper in town, used his business savvy to turn the Inn into a premiere place to stay.
We followed Blair up to our room. On the way, we passed two decks, where you can enjoy your morning coffee or tea while relaxing on the wicker furniture or simply luxuriate in the sun. Our room, called the “Winter Garden Suite”, was located on the third floor, and was everything that we expected: at 665 square feet, it was the second largest suite in the nine-room inn, and featured a two-person Jacuzzi tub, a expansive shower room, a romantic fireplace and a brass king bed circa 1875. There was also a flat screen television positioned above the fireplace that doubled as a gold-framed mirror when the TV was turned off.
Enjoying Newport There is so much to see and do in Newport that it’s best to have a plan. Since I had an itinerary planned for the following day, we decided to take it easy upon our arrival. Aimlessly strolling along the streets, we wound up on Thames Street and America’s Cup Avenue, which meanders along the harbor. On the way down the hill, we stopped for a delicious pizza at a Nikolas Pizza on Memorial Boulevard. We were even lucky enough to get a table outside and do some people watching.
There are as many shops as you can imagine in downtown Newport, including chains like Gap and Brooks Brothers, as well as several independent stores such as Pleasant Surprise and Newport Candle Company. Like any boardwalk area, there are a fair amount of t-shirt stores. Brick Marketplace and Bowen’s Wharf also offer eateries and shops near the water.
A spot to hit while visiting is The Newport County Convention & Visitors Bureau on America’s Cup Avenue, adjacent to The Marriott. Here, friendly employees will help you plan your day. You can buy tickets to the mansions and museums and tours of all kinds, including trollies and buses, harbor cruises, walking tours and harbor tours. And while you’re here, you should inquire about the Ghost tours. Guided by a woman attired in Victorian garb, the tour will spook you with stories that you won’t find in the history books!
The more adventurous may wish to forgo the guided tours for one of Newport’s self-guided history tours. Following signposts, you can walk the streets of downtown Newport while learning about its history and many architectural styles. Check out the Newport Colony House, the fourth oldest American state house that is still standing. Mayor John Handy read the Declaration of Independence from the front steps in 1776 and General Rochambeau entertained George Washington in 1782. Or, visit St. Mary’s Catholic Church, where then Senator John F. Kennedy married Jacqueline Bouvier.
Of course, no trip to Newport would be complete without a trip to the mansions on Bellevue Avenue. Similar to those found on my recent trip to Rhinebeck, NY, these homes were once the palatial summer “cottages” of influential families in Gilded Age America, including the Vanderbilts and the Astors. There is The Breakers, The Elms, Marble House, Rosecliff (featured in “The Great Gatsby” with Robert Redford and Mia Farrow), the Isaac Bell House, Kingscote and Belcourt Castle, the only home offering tours that still has the owner living there. And just to the rear of the mansions is the breathtaking “Cliff Walk”, a scenic 3.5-mile walk along the back lawns of many of Newport’s finest historic mansions that offers sweeping views of the ocean.
On day two, we enjoyed a harbor cruise (which I highly recommend) and a trip to the wineries, as well as another leisurely stroll through town. Of course, you can’t forget about the beaches. But no matter where you go, you will find that Newport is an alluring, mesmerizing town. And trust me: once you come here, you’ll want to return every year. And the best part? You don’t need to wait for the summer to enjoy this seaside town! In fact, the locals insist that autumn is the best time to experience this wonderful city. So why not pack up that parka and head for the sea? You won’t be disappointed.
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Mindless EatingCould this be happening to you?By Judy Torel Would it surprise you to discover that on average we make over 200 decisions about food every day? Of those 200-plus decisions, most of them are not determined by how hungry we are. Most of these decisions are based on unconscious or mindless influences. This is what makes losing weight so hard. Most of the time we are not even aware that mindless eating is happening to us. So what are these unconscious influences that lead us to overeat and what can we do to become more mindful of what and how much we put into our mouths?
Size Matters! If you eat from a larger plate, a bigger bag of chips or a family size bowl, you will eat more than if you ate from a smaller container or plate. And it doesn’t matter if you are hungry or if the food tastes good or not. In a study conducted at a Chicago movie theater, people were treated to a movie just after they ate lunch. Each person was given a large soda and either a medium or large bag of popcorn. The popcorn was served stale; it was five days old. The researchers had measured exactly how much popcorn was in each bag and at the end of the movie they collected the bags of popcorn and measured what was left so they knew exactly how much each person had eaten. What they discovered was that every one who was given the bigger bag ate an average of 173 more calories then those given the medium bag. The researchers told the people receiving the larger bags that in prior research, people who were given the bigger bags ate more. They then asked the current participants if they thought they had eaten more because they were given the bigger bags. Many said things like, “That wouldn’t happen to me” or “I’m pretty good at knowing when I am full.” In addition to the participants mindlessly eating more then they reported, the popcorn was stale and they had just eaten lunch! This demonstrates that not only are we less aware of how much we eat (even when we think we are!) but that we will eat even when we are not hungry and the food doesn’t taste good! Weight loss tip: Whenever you eat, make sure you pre-portion the serving you are going to consume and put it on a plate so that you can see when that serving is done. You will save yourself hundreds of calories and you will still feel as equally satisfied as when you mindlessly eat more.
See-Food Trap We like to think that we make the decision to eat based on whether or not we are hungry, but the reality is that we are influenced by what we see. A research study involving secretaries and candy dishes supports the assertion that we eat more when we see more food, regardless of hunger. The researchers gave an office building full of secretaries a beautiful dish of 30 candy kisses to put on their desks for Secretaries Week. Half the secretaries were given clear dishes where you could easily spot the chocolate; half had solid dishes where you couldn’t see them What the researchers discovered was that the secretaries given the clear dishes put their hands in the candy dish an average of five to eight times more each day then those given the white dishes. That is an average of 77 calories more per day. Over the period of a year this would add up to over five extra pounds, but the secretaries would not have had any idea of where those pounds would have come from since they were mindlessly over-eating the chocolates! Along the same lines, we will eat less if we have to work harder to get the food. In a similar research experiment, clear candy dishes were placed either within reach of office workers, on their desks, or on a file cabinet that would require the person to get out of their chair to get the chocolate. As you can probably guess at this point, if you had to get up to get the candy, you ate less. Weight loss tip: Keep food in opaque containers at work AND in your kitchen. A clear cookie jar on the counter top will lead to more mindless eating than a solid one. And keep the foods that you are trying to control in the upper cabinets that you have to use a chair to access. You will think twice and with awareness if you have to do some work to get at the treats!
Healthy food has less calories….NOT! Many people are very careful to minimize or avoid fast foods that are high–fat, junky snack foods and high–refined sugar foods. But what do we do when we think a food is healthy? In another study conducted in a grocery store, people were given samples of two granola bars, one with health claims and one without. In actuality, the bars were exactly the same. What the researchers found is that people not only were influenced by the label into believing that one bar was healthier then the other, they also over-attributed what the health benefits were from the healthy bar. So, if the bar said it lowered cholesterol, some of the people surveyed said they believed that the bar would also help reduce symptoms of diabetes and could reverse the damage caused by eating other junk foods. One person went so far as to say that he thought the bar could help reverse birth defects! So, if a label has a health claim, we will tend to eat more of it because we think of it as healthy. In a research study dubbed the “McSubway Study”, researchers compared what people ate at McDonalds and Subway restaurants that were within 150 feet of each other at various locations within the northeast region of the US. Subway restaurants are known for their efforts at posting nutritional information about their foods such as the “6 for 6” sandwiches which have six or less grams of fat per six-inch sub. McDonalds is not known for its efforts at providing healthy foods. Subway is viewed as a “healthy” fast food restaurant; whereas McDonalds is viewed as an “unhealthy.” The researchers discovered that the average Subway eater in their study thought he was eating 495 calories, but in reality he had eaten 677 calories, which is 34 percent more. The average McDonalds eater ate 1,097 calories, but thought she had eaten 876. This is 25 percent higher than she thought. Surprised? The researchers concluded that when we perceive food as healthy, we give it what they referred to as the “health food halo” and we proceed to eat more than we think because in our minds we have labeled it as healthy.
Weight loss tip: Even healthy food has calories! Make sure you are aware of the calories in the health food you are consuming and be sure to track them. You still need to be portion-aware even if the food claims it will lower cholesterol, regulate blood sugar levels, etc. There are many more mindless eating stimulants that we encounter every day. If you are interested in learning more about them, I refer you to the book, Mindless Eating: Why we eat more than we think, by Brian Wansink, PhD. This article was formulated from research reported in this book. It is a necessary addition to the library of anyone actively trying to lose weight.
Judy Torel is a therapist/personal trainer with a Master’s degree in psychology. She is certified through the American College of Sports Medicine as a fitness trainer and works out of Planet Fitness and Deb's Sweat Shop Extension. She can be reached at JTOREL2263@yahoo.com

The Grape EscapeExperiencing contrast in California wine countryBy William M. Dowd Photos by April L. Dowd This is a tale of two appellations. Napa and Lodi, to be precise, side-by-side regions of California's wine country and a study in social evolution. On a recent tour of both regions, I was struck by how much Lodi is mirroring Napa’s past, while Napa is shaping a different sort of future. To much of the world, the Napa region is symbolic of American wine in general. It began emerging from the industry pack in the 1970s, with such names as Mondavi, Beringer and Stags Leap becoming standards of wine quality.
To insiders, however, Napa is in the midst of major upheaval. Families that built some of the strongest brands from what once were farms, particularly the Mondavi clan, are either waging internal tussles for control or are selling out to major concerns as the corporatization of Napa relentlessly grinds on.
But, a short drive to the east, in the Lodi appellation (an agricultural region recognized by the federal government) that sweeps up from the San Francisco Bay/San Joaquin Delta region midway between San Francisco and Sacramento, early Napa is being re-created.
Third- and fourth-generation farm families have been moving from being mostly grape growers supplying major winemakers to developing their own wines and brands. They’re working hard at making the Lodi brand known outside the Pacific Coast and trying to develop tourism and ancillary businesses along with it, just as Napa did in its early days.
A good example is Vino Con Brio Vineyards where Mike and Renae Matson combine winemaking with Amorosa Inn & Gardens, their posh bed-and-breakfast operation. Renae gave up her practice as a psychiatrist to run the B&B full-time, and their daughter, Anne, left her job as a financial underwriter to become general manager of the wine business while Mike oversees the viniculture portion.
To the outsider, the Napa Valley image is wall-to-wall grapes. To anyone traversing the valley on Route 29 or the parallel Silverado Trail, that is merely part of the inventory.
The moderate climate, affected by low mountains on either side and by the narrow Napa River that meanders through the cleft, nurtures brilliant clumps of lilies, oleander and roses, as well as stands of camphor, valley oak, cedar, magnolia and olive trees.
Despite its relatively diminutive size—30 miles long and one to five miles wide—the Napa Valley’s undulating topography creates a series of microclimates. Temperatures can differ by 10 or more degrees from one end to the other.
Swaths of browned-out vegetation form the floor of the woods and fields, in marked contrast to the deep blue-greens and brilliant emeralds of the numerous copses of trees dotting the landscape from the little main city of Napa at the valley’s southern edge to the village of Calistoga and its mineral and mud baths up north.
In February and March, the valley usually gets its share of precipitation. In summer and early autumn, rain is so rare the natives can tell you on what day in what year they last recall seeing a downpour. This year it’s even easier. It hasn’t rained. Period.
Clever viniculture methods and irrigation systems have nevertheless made this spot an hour’s drive northeast of San Francisco arguably America’s premier wine producing area. Visitors touring the ubiquitous wineries and their tasting rooms have about 200 to choose from, places marked by their distinctive main-building architecture that ranges from Victorian farmhouse to French chateau to Tuscan villa to the “Star Wars” look of Mondavi’s Opus One operation across the road from its main fields.
The valley’s growing tourist popularity has fueled the rebirth of Napa, the anchor city of 53,000, and made the region home to such hospitality industry facilities as the Culinary Institute of America’s West Coast branch, opened in 1995 in the former Greystone Cellars complex near the village of St. Helena.
Perhaps the most unusual facility in the valley, however, is something called Copia, named for the Roman goddess of abundance who carried a cornucopia, the horn of plenty. Copia’s subtitle is “The American Center for Wine, Food & The Arts.” It’s a not-for-profit cultural center and museum that has been open to the public since 2001. The complex includes sprawling herb, flower and tree gardens, as well as several restaurants in the 80,000-square-foot building on the banks of an oxbow bend in the Napa River. In addition to exhibition and event space, the center, open year-round, has many clever ways of appealing to visitors of all ages. The programs, guests and styles of entertainment are geared toward virtually any demographic group.
Formal or self-guided walking tours in the extensive herb and vegetable gardens - home to an amazing 100 kinds of tomatoes and 40 kinds of lavender, for example—show how the institution helps keep heirloom plant species alive.
Copia may be in the heart of California wine country, but its venue is the world. Many visitors take full advantage of being plopped down in the middle of this temple dedicated to the senses. Conversely, Lodi has a more rustic feel, a sport coat to Napa’s tuxedo.
The land is flatter, dotted with more general farms than Napa Valley as the transition to grape growing almost to the extinction of all else slowly picks up momentum. Here you can still see lots of fruit tree groves, tomato gardens, cornfields, strawberry rows and roadside stands offering produce from those very growing spots.
Lest you think this is solid agricultural country with nothing for tourists to see, think again. Besides the obvious—wine tasting at the Lodi Wine & Visitor Center, the Vino Piazza in nearby Lockeford where 11 wineries’ wares are featured, or any of the individual wineries such as Bear Creek, Crystal Valley, Benson Ferry, Baywood Cellars and Jessie’s Grove – there is an entire sector of activities not so obvious in a land without rain: water tours and sports.
What would any tourist area be without golf courses? The Lodi-Stockton area has more than a dozen with weekday greens fees at some venues as low as $8. Bicycling is popular as well, thanks to the expanse of flat lands and number of quiet back roads.
The presence of wood ducks, double-crested cormorants, Cooper’s hawks, egrets, great horned owls, acorn woodpeckers and numerous other species make birding a popular pastime here as well, particularly at Oak Grove Regional Park and Lodi Lake. The highlight is the annual Sandhill Crane Festival in Lodi, which features the endangered bird and provides a good excuse for family activities, musical acts, habitat tours and the like. This year’s festival is scheduled for Nov. 2-3.
Off dry land, there also is much to see and do. From activities at Lodi Lake Park, host of the Lodi ZinFest every May and the Lodi Fishing Derby every June, to its larger cousin, the 160-mile–long Mokelumne River, every manner of boating, fishing, water skiing, partying or just gazing is available.
The Mokelumne—a Miwok Indian name meaning “people of the fish net”—is laden with salmon and trout that draw anglers from all over. Following the course of the river, from its origin in the Sierra Nevada Mountains to where it opens up into the San Joaquin River and then spills into San Francisco Bay, can be a fascinating adventure in both western American history and a wide range of physical activities.
Nearly 25 miles of the river near the Eldorado National Forest is a Class V whitewater area—the most rugged classification for whitewater activities. The area running past Lodi city is calmer, more suited for leisurely boating or fishing. Seven dams and several manmade lakes—such as the aforementioned Lodi Park Lake—along the river length create recreational areas. Jet skiers in particular like the flatwater area at the start of the San Joaquin Delta just south of Lodi city.
There also is the Delta Loop, a 10-mile long drive along high-levee roads and well off the beaten track of Highways 12 and 160, which carry most of the local traffic. It begins about 25 minutes from downtown Lodi and reveals a steady stream of marinas, shops, restaurants and waterside resorts.
The whole Lodi area is entwined with development of the west. The California Gold Rush of the mid-1800s was headquartered at Mokelumne Hill in Calaveras County. The wild times of those days gave rise to numerous classics of Americana poetry and literature by the likes of Bret Harte (“The Luck of Roaring Camp,” “The Outcasts of Poker Flat”) who was born in Albany, NY, in 1836 and Mark Twain (“The Celebrated Jumping Frog of Calaveras County”).
And, just to show that Lodi country reveres more than grapes, each spring it holds an Asparagus Festival, Cherry Festival and Strawberry Festival; in summer, an Apricot Festival, and in autumn, a Dry Bean Festival and an Eggplant Festival. Tucked in among them are testimonials to other culinary delights, such as the ZinFest, the Art & Wine Festival, Wine & Sausage Festival, Crawdad Festival, Seafood Festival and Candy Festival.
If you can’t find something to do in Lodi, you’re really hard to please. If you can’t find enough to eat and drink, it’s your own fault. 
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Garden GuruBy Kerry A. Mendez Q:How can I keep my neighbor’s cat from using my garden as its litter box? A:Get a dog. Just joking (half-heartedly). Flower gardens seem to be irresistible port-a-potties for many cats. They enjoy a huge litter box with privacy screens. Can you blame them? But this doesn’t ease the frustration one feels when we hit one of their buried treasures. There are smell repellants you can apply to send them away in disgust. Bonide makes a granular product called Shot-Gun Dog and Cat Repellant that has an obnoxious odor to our four-footed friends. Shake-Away is a product that works the same way, but it contains fox and coyote urine. You simply scatter these on the soil to dissuade visitors. Pepper and garlic sprays also work when applied to plants. Rue graveolens is an attractive herb that smells disgusting to cats. Rue is a perennial hardy to zone 5, with showy, bluish-green leaves and yellow flowers. It grows about 2’ – 3’ tall in full sun and well-drained soil. It looks pretty in my beds and works as an invisible cat fence. Cats also dislike the smell of citrus. Scatter orange and lemon peels around areas that show signs of a cat’s calling card. Cat Scat is an interesting product. It kind of looks like a bed of one-inch nails, but it is a brown plastic mat with spikes that effectively discourages cats. Or to save money, make your own version using thorny rose canes or brambly branches. Needless to say, trapping is out.
Q:I always see great deals on shrubs and trees at the end of the season. Is it safe to plant these so late? A:It depends on the plant and how late you are referring to. I love a deal and I am the first in line to purchase good buys. Most deciduous shrubs and younger trees (plants that lose their leaves in the winter) can safely be planted through October in our area. Of course, you greatly increase the odds of how these survive Old Man Winter’s attacks with proper planting and good watering. Before planting, water the container well. When digging the hole, make sure it is at least twice the width of the container and a depth that is the same height of the container. You can add a small amount of compost or manure to the planting hole, mix it into the existing soil and set the plant at the same depth it was in the pot. Water the root ball well, backfill the hole with soil, tamp down and water again. Continue watering the new plant regularly until the ground freezes. I am hesitant to plant any evergreens (plants that retain their leaves/needles in the winter) after mid-October. These are more vulnerable to winterkill because they continue to transpire water though their leaves in winter. Unfortunately, evergreens cannot replenish water loss from frozen ground. This can be extremely stressful, even fatal, to the plant if it hasn’t rooted out well after transplanting. The final point I would make is the healthier any plant is before you dig it in, the better its odds of surviving the winter. If the plant already looks stressed in the pot (i.e., it was not cared for properly at the garden center), then it is already behind the eight ball. Leave it there.
Q:Silver is such an elegant color. What are some silver-leaved plants I can add to my gardens? Are there any flowers that are silver? A:Silver certainly adds an air of sophistication to any garden. An added bonus is that many of these silvery-leaved plants are also drought tolerant. Plus, they do a fabulous job at quieting down loud colors that are close to each other, acting as a mitigating go-between. I have many silver peacemakers in my gardens. I personally love pairing these with blue, purple and pink flowers or next to plants with blue or burgundy leaves. The majority of plants with silver leaves enjoy sunny locations and good drainage. Sun-loving, silver-foliaged perennials include lamb’s ear, artemisias (be careful of ‘Silver King’ and ‘Silver Queen’ that can be very invasive), edelweiss (leontopodium), santolina (herb, borderline zone 5 and 6), pussytoes (antennaria), yarrow ‘Moonshine’, snow-in-summer (cerastium), lychnis rose campion and salvia argenta (a biennial). Perennials for shade include spotted dead nettle (lamium ‘Pink Pewter’, ‘White Nancy’ and ‘Red Dragon’), Brunnera ‘Jack Frost’ and ‘Looking Glass’, pulmonaria ‘Majeste’ and ‘Diana Clare’. Silver-leaved annuals include dusty miller, licorice plant (helichrysum) and dichondra ‘Silver Falls’. Persian Shield is stunning with shiny silver and purple leaves. There are also a few silvery-white flowers to add refinement to your garden. Sea holly ‘Miss Wilmott’s Ghost’ and globe thistle ‘Artic Glow’ have silvery flowers that seem to especially glow at dusk. Moroccan sea holly (eryngium variifolium) initially has silvery-balled flowers, but they slowly turn blue as the flowers mature.
Editors note: This is Kerry’s last column for the season. We look forward to her return next spring. Kerry Mendez is the owner of Perennially Yours and is a teacher, writer, speaker and consultant residing in Ballston Spa. To learn more about her work, please visit her web site at www.pyours.com.
Bringing optimism into family lifeBy Randy Cale, PH.D Many parents wonder how to best help their children develop a sense of optimism. As we know, it appears that optimism brings great rewards over the course of our lives. We are not only happier with life, but we are more resourceful in the face of difficulty. Optimism gives us the ability to problem-solve and see opportunity where others do not. On a very practical level, optimistic individuals live longer, have fewer illnesses and experience fewer divorces. The list of benefits is quite impressive and our children would clearly benefit from this gift if we can instill this valuable trait.
We often undermine optimism by promoting pessimism. Many of us are constantly wrecking our family’s happiness and optimism. We don’t do it intentionally, but it happens with our daily choices. Here’s how: First, we walk through the door grumpy. We don’t even need to speak in a pessimistic way, as our actions are clear. The message our children receive is that the world is not a happy place for mom or dad. Secondly, we let problems get our repeated attention. In a world where most of us are remarkably blessed, we find problems. It’s not intentional. It’s just that many of us were “trained” by our parents to notice what’s not working and focus our attention and energy on the things we don’t like, resulting in letting this perspective dominate our life’s view.
Finally, we give our energy to our children’s problems more than we focus on their success and happiness. When we keep investing in those “problem moments,” it’s as if we are training their brains to think that the world (i.e., mom and dad) really care more about problem moments than they do about happy, cooperative moments.
When all of this is combined, our kids don’t stand a chance to pull out of our problem focused, pessimistic world.” To turn this around, we need to intentionally nurture optimism!
Unfortunately, optimism isn’t something we can “give” our children, any more than we can give them self-esteem or appreciation; they have to attain those characteristics on their own. Yet, we can plant the healthy, strong seeds of optimism. Here’s how:
1. Pay attention to what you model. Make a commitment to walk in the door with a focus on what you value and appreciate. Let your kids see your smile and your happiness. Talk about what went well, not what went wrong. Show them that the little things don’t really matter. Build this train of thought inside of you and your children will naturally learn from your presence.
2. Ignore pessimism, whining and negativity. When those around you get pulled into negative, complaining and pessimistic emotional states, ignore them. When your children whine and complain, walk away. When you find someone on the TV complaining about the world, change the channel. When you find yourself noticing more problems, ignore your own thoughts. You don’t have to keep thinking about problems just because they show up in your mind.
3. Limit the attention you give to problems. There are problems. And our “problem-focused world” is one of the biggest obstacles to our persistent optimism! But it’s not the problems themselves that do the most to defeat optimism; it’s the disproportionate amount of attention we give to them. We have to be careful, as we can easily fall into the habit of finding only problems, and then trying to solve them. Many of these so-called problems could easily be defined as natural learning experiences if we just get out of the way. It may not even appear as a problem to our children if we don’t make it one. So be careful and limit the attention you give to problems. Instead, shift your energy and attention to the solution to the problem as quickly as possible.
4. Build on the moments of happiness and optimism. Finally, the way to enhance a child’s experience of happiness and joy is to spend more time noticing moments of happiness and joy. This really means that you put your active attention into the moments you truly value. In the process, you will actually build their psychological resiliency and trigger an upward spiral toward improved emotional well-being. So, rather than ignoring the joyful, happy, calm and cooperative moments, engage with your children during these moments. Laugh! Smile at them! Give them a thumbs up! Roll on the floor with them! Play games with them! And be more spontaneous in your play! This doesn’t mean that you need to be playing for two hours. This means simply stopping in for five minutes and joining in the laughter and fun. Comment on how much you enjoy being with your children when they are laughing and playing. When you follow these simple principles, you will find a growing sense of optimism in your home.
Dr. Randy Cale, a Clifton Park based parenting expert, author, speaker and licensed psychologist, offers practical guidance for a host of parenting concerns. Dr. Cale’s new website, www.TerrificParenting.com offers valuable free parenting information and an e-mail newsletter.
Relax and enjoy your lifeBy Diane E. Lykes, LCSW “Here’s a little song I wrote You might want to sing it note for note Don’t Worry—Be Happy In every life we have some trouble But when you worry you make it double Don’t Worry—Be Happy”
A renowned Indian spiritual teacher, Meher Baba (1894-1969) often used the expression “Don’t worry be happy” with his followers. Almost 20 years after Baba’s death, singer/songwriter Bobby McFerrin won a Grammy for his song based on this simple quote. The lyrics and Caribbean beat struck a chord with many people who imagined an easier life sipping exotic drinks on their favorite sandy beach. Who wouldn’t want to live a more relaxed, worry-free lifestyle? In our busy world it’s not unusual to feel worried from time to time. Worrying can be productive when it motivates us to address our problems or get involved in an important cause. However, too much worrying can lead to daily anxiety, difficulty concentrating, sleeplessness, fatigue, headaches and feelings of dread. If worrying becomes a long-term problem, it can affect your relationships and your physical and emotional health. Fortunately, there are ways for you to ease your worries. Learn more about this very human condition and why you need your own personal “tool kit” to live a more relaxed life.
What are you worrying about? Did you know that more than 95% of the things we worry about never actually happen? Some people spend a good part of their life worrying about all the things that could go wrong. This is called “what if” thinking. When you engage in this type of thinking (“what if I never find a good job?” “what if I never meet someone and I spend my life alone?”), your body generates adrenalin, which increases the amount of anxiety you feel. A healthier approach is to remind yourself that most often the things you worry about will never occur. In order to live your life fully and creatively, you must accept that there will be inevitable risks. In other words, part of living is overcoming and learning from life’s greatest challenges rather than living in fear of them.
How much control do you have anyway? There are two types of situations in life: those that you can change and those that you cannot. Worrying about what you cannot change wastes valuable energy you could be using to move your life in a more positive direction. For those situations you can change, try taking a more active role in resolving them. Often times, our anticipation of a stressful situation is far greater than the actual event itself. Once we go forward and face our fears head on, our self-esteem skyrockets and our worries and anxieties diminish.
Faster is not better, so try slowing down. Many people rush through their life in a hurried frenzy. They often complain that they have no time and wish they could slow down and relax. They spend their days trying to get the most done in the least amount of time. As Mahatma Gandhi put it, “there is more to life than increasing its speed.” In an effort to learn how to worry less and live a more meaningful and relaxed life, we need to learn how to slow down.
Tool kit for worriers Self-talk and perfectionism: Self-talk is what we say to ourselves in response to a particular situation and it determines our mood and feelings. People who worry and suffer from anxiety are especially prone to engage in negative self-talk. They often hold themselves to the highest of standards and could aptly be called a perfectionist.
Perfectionists are very critical of their performance and their self-talk sounds like this: “How could I let something like this happen?” or “I never seem to get this right.” It’s no wonder that they worry about so much. They have to do things perfectly or else they will see themselves as a failure.
When you feel yourself engaging in negative self-talk, remind yourself that there is always improvement that can be made in everything you see and do. Because we live in an imperfect world, a person who strives for perfection is guaranteed failure.
Exercise and diet: Many researchers have found that the most effective treatment for anxiety and worry is developing a healthy diet and exercise routine. This lifestyle change is often more effective than “quick fixes” such as prescription medications which come with negative side effects or even addiction.
Any aerobic exercise done at least three times per week for at least 20 minutes each time can help increase your ability to tolerate stress and will reduce your tension. Have you ever experienced the wonderful feeling of post-exercise relaxation? If you’re not currently exercising consider adding this to your tool kit.
Your body craves certain vitamins and nutrients to manage normal levels of stress, anxiety and worry. You may want to make a visit to a nutritionist as part of your plan. The first question he or she will ask is “how much caffeine do you consume each day?” More than two cups of brewed coffee or four cans of soda is considered excessive and can lead to “caffeine intoxication”, which looks a lot like anxiety and worry! Relaxation: From yoga to meditation to breathing exercises to visualization, there are numerous ways to incorporate relaxation into your daily life. The important thing is to choose something relaxing that you can use over time, both preventatively and during periods of high stress.
Try this simple breathing exercise to achieve a deep level of relaxation quickly: A. Breathe from the abdomen, inhale through your nose slowly to a count of five. B. Pause and hold your breath to a count of five. C. Exhale slowly through your nose or mouth to a count of five, exhaling fully. D. Take two breaths in your normal rhythm then repeat steps A-C. Do this for three minutes.
Laughter: A good sense of humor is one of your greatest allies in overcoming the effects of worry and anxiety. People who worry tend to take themselves and their lives too seriously. Insignificant events become magnified and life becomes “heavy” and full of “issues”. Instead, try taking yourself less seriously, your flaws included. Recognize your humanness and all that comes with it.
In the final verse of his song, Bobby McFerrin sends an important message: “Cause when you worry your face will frown and that will bring everybody down. Don’t Worry—Be Happy”
In the process of learning how to let go of your worries, you may find that you are giving the people who love you a true gift…a more relaxed and carefree you.
Diane Lykes is a Principal of Synergy Counseling Associates in Albany where she specializes in individual and couples counseling, educational training and clinical consultation. Synergy is a unique counseling practice providing compassionate, solution-oriented treatment for adults, children, adolescents and families. She can be reached at 466-3100 or at lykes-synergy@nycap.rr.com

Destination: WalesThe little country with a lot of allure.By Linda McClain, CTA Great Britain consists of three countries: England, Scotland and Wales. Although Wales is the smallest of the three, it is a country packed with a well-preserved heritage, diverse attractions and beautiful scenery. Capital City: Cardiff. Language: English and Welsh Currency: Pound Sterling (GBP) Best Time To Visit: May-August with daytime temperatures averaging 59F-67F High
Historic Significance Evidence of life in Wales dates back to at least 12,000 years ago. The Romans built castles and cathedrals throughout Wales. The most significant architecture is a 6,000–seat amphitheatre in Caerleon. Celtic invaders conquered Wales about 600 B.C.
How do I get there? Fly into Cardiff, the capital city. Other options include arrival to London, England and taking the train (about 1 hour and 45 minutes) or driving a car (roughly 4 hours)
What can I do there? Choose from an abundance of cultural attractions by day, and a wide range of entertainment and dining options by night. • A hiker’s and mountain climber’s delight! • Explore! From white sand beaches to rocky cliffs, discover the sights, scenery and solitude of Wales. Walking tours, golfing, paragliding and bicycle excursions are just a few wonderful ways to enjoy your days. • Experience early European architecture with Wales’ castles and historic ruins. • Visit Carmarthen on the River Towy. Ancient coracles are still seen on the river. These are basket-shaped boats made of cloth which has been stretched over a wooden frame. Their use dates back 2,000 years ago. • Ferry over to Ireland from Pembroke, Holyhead or Fishguard. • Do a self-drive vacation or train journey.
Interesting facts: • Statistics confirm that Wales has more castles per square mile than anywhere else in the world. There are over 400 of them! • Most Welsh castles were built along the coast. • Wales is slightly larger than the state of New Jersey, but if its hills and mountains were flattened out, it would be at least as large as Texas. • Since the year, 1301 the heir to the British throne has been recognized as Prince of Wales. • Prince Charles, Prince of Wales holds the recent title. • Sir Edmund Hillary trained for his climbing expeditions in Wales. • The rocks used to form Stonehenge were transported from Wales • The Welch language does not use the letters j,k,q,v,x and z. Longest name of a place in Wales: Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch. • Wales has the only coastal national park in Great Britain, The Pembrokeshire, with miles of beaches. • Two thirds of Wales consists of the Cambrian Mountains. • Snowdonia National Park is home to some of the most spectacular scenery in the British Isles. Snowdon is the highest peak at 3,560 feet Famous native Welsh personalities include: William Wordsworth, poet Catherine Zeta-Jones, actress Anthony Hopkins, actor Richard Burton, actor Tom Jones, singer Charlotte Church, singer
Linda McClain, CTA, is owner of Capital Region based Linda McClain Travel Services “From The Islands To The Highlands, No Dream Is Too Far From Here!” For more information call 372.7657 or visit www.lindamcclaintravel.com.
October brings us rock and roll, spirituality and a wonderful new novel from a local boy whose novels have won the Pulitzer Prize and been made into movies. With the obvious exception of Harry Potter, publishers produce their biggest titles in the fall and choosing what to review was a pleasant challenge. I hope you find something appealing!
Rock and roll is in the air this season. David Cassidy has an autobiography out, Pattie Boyd’s Wonderful Tonight about her life as a super-model and wife of George Harrison and Eric Clapton is climbing the bestseller list as I write, and Pamela Des Barres has a new book out. Her name might not be familiar, but if you’ve seen Cameron Crowe’s movie “Almost Famous,” you’ve seen a character based on her and others like her—Penny Lane, the super-groupie played by Kate Hudson. Des Barres glory days are chronicled in her first book, I’m With the Band, a memoir first published 20 years ago. She was obsessed with music from childhood, swooning over Elvis records and Dion until she became a Beatlemaniac and tried desperately to meet them in LA in 1964. Although she was unsuccessful, she’d been bitten by the rock bug and was determined to have a place in that world. From flower child to rock wife, Pamela encounters Gram Parsons, Jim Morrison, Frank Zappa, Don Johnson and many others, both famous and infamous. Her writing style is chatty and intimate, and the book contains many excerpts from her journal. The book ends when she and her husband-to-be, Michael Des Barres, begin their lives together.
In her most recent book, Let’s Spend the Night Together, Des Barres chronicles her time traveling the country visiting groupies and collecting their reminisces of Elvis Presley, Iggy Pop, Van Halen, Mick Jagger and countless other rock icons. Covering sex, drugs and rock and roll, this alternately impressive and appalling narrative is never boring! Beginning with Tura Satana, the exotic dancer who taught Elvis how to dance, kiss and more, and ending with Static Beth, a woman whose website features rock stars’ nether regions, the compilation mirrors the history of rock itself, from the innocence of the ‘50s and ‘60s through the decadence of the ‘70s and ‘80s and into the “anything goes” philosophy of the ‘90s and today.
The epilogue is an interview with Cameron Crowe, who expounds on “Almost Famous”, his definition of groupie, and his first meeting with Des Barres in 1973 while he was interviewing Robert Plant and Jimmy Page of Led Zeppelin. It neatly encapsulates the author’s view that groupies were and are an integral part of the rock scene. The last chapter also updates her life up until 2005. If you love VH1 Behind the Scenes, you should read this book.
Breakfast with Buddha is a novel with spiritual overtones by Roland Merullo. Otto Ringling, the protagonist, is an upper-middle class publishing executive living the good life with his wife and children in a wealthy New York suburb. Any niggling thoughts he might have about the true meaning of life are buried under the minutiae of everyday matters, but when his parents are killed in a car accident, those questions bubble to the surface. In order to settle his parents’ estate, he decides to drive to North Dakota and see to matters in person. His new-age, mystic sister who intended to accompany him changes her mind and sends her guru along in his place. Here the adventure begins. How can a conventional, successful man spend a week on the road with a holy man he suspects is out to defraud his sister of her inheritance? And yet, as the trip progresses and Otto starts to see his world through the guru’s eyes, he begins to grasp that there might be more to life than he ever dreamed of. Through bowling, miniature golf, yoga and meditation, he learns what is important. This is a wonderful book on spirituality for those who prefer their lessons coated in fiction and an uplifting read for those looking for a good story.
In Richard Russo’s new book, Bridge of Sighs, he returns to New York State to the economically depressed towns made famous in his earliest novels. In it, he traces the entwined destinies of a small town homebody, an expatriate painter living in Venice, and the woman who loves them both. Moving from the present back through childhood, and shifting through several narrative voices, Bridge of Sighs is a wonderful story, certain to be Russo’s next bestseller. If you loved Nobody’s Fool and Empire Falls, you have a treat in store.
Susan Taylor has been in the book business, in one aspect or another, since 1982. She recently returned to the Capital District after 14 years in the Boston area (which included stints at the Harvard Bookstore and the Wellesley Booksmith), and is happily re-employed at the Book House of Stuyvesant Plaza. Stop by the store if you are looking for a good book—she’s read a lot more than she can talk about here!
Sun Sign Forecast For October 2007By Arlene DeAngelus Best Days for October: 12th, 16th, 21st and 30th Aries: (March 21 to April 20) One-to-one partnerships, both business and personal, are your focus this month as you reach out to these important people. After the 12th, discussions center on shared resources. Then, toward the end of the month, your interest turns to such abstract subjects as the law, philosophy and religion. On the 26th, take a new look at your savings and budget plans.
Taurus: (April 21 to May 20) Work relationships and serving others are your focus for this month. Improve your diet and exercise regimens where needed. Dealing with others who have opinions different from your own requires patience after the 12th. At the end of the month, you resolve issues surrounding shared resources and assets. On the 26th, purchase a new outfit or try a new hairstyle.
Gemini : (May 21 to June 20) Loved ones and children are your focus for this month. You have pleasant times sharing in these special relationships. After the 12th, maintain clear communications with co-workers in order to avoid conflict. Toward month’s end, both business and personal relationships are important as you reach an agreement in a significant relationship. On the 26th, correct a past mistake.
Cancer: (June 21 to July 22) Home life and family relationships are your focus for this month. You can settle outstanding issues. Listen to ideas from your loved ones and children after the 12th. At the end of the month, you consider a new exercise regimen and/or diet. Physical efficiency is important as well. On the 26th, re-evaluate your goals and directions. Set new ones, if needed.
Leo: (July 23 to August 22) Learning and communicating with others are your focus for this month. Sign up for a class or workshop. After the 12th, domestic and personal areas gain your attention. Toward the end of the month, there are good times with your loved ones and children. A young person or child may ask for your help. On the 26th, there can be a change in your dealings with other people.
Virgo: (August 23 to September 22) Money and tangible assets are your focus for this month. After the 12th, re-check all forms of communication. Later in the month, your personal and domestic areas are activated and you begin to explore your roots and family history. On the 26th, there are changes in your communications with those at a distance and you become more interested in intellectual studies.
Libra: (September 23 to October 22) Self-awareness and personal expression are your focus for this month. You can achieve success with your leadership. Re-evaluate your finances and plan to begin a new budget after the 12th. Toward the end of the month, you become interested in studies and communications as you explore new-age subjects. On the 26th, make changes in jointly held resources and settle debts.
Scorpio: (October 23 to November 21) Inner-self and spiritual growth are your focus for this month. After the 12th, it can be difficult to express yourself clearly. Later in the month, review your finances and update your budgeting practices. Your values and resources now come to the forefront. On the 26th, there is a change in a relationship and you try to improve your understanding of others.
Sagittarius: (November 22 to December 21) Social contacts and long-term goals are your focus for this month. You revisit your spiritual beliefs and inner-self after the 12th. Toward mid-month, if you need to make a presentation or attend negotiations, you can shine. You also gain new self-confidence at this time. On the 26th, make changes in your physical condition through exercise and a new diet.
Capricorn: (December 22 to January 19) Ambition and a desire for success are your focus for this month. After the 12th, you re-evaluate your goals and directions and make any necessary changes. Later in the month, be careful not to sabotage yourself. Your motives and deeper beliefs may be questioned. On the 26th, you may also become involved in school or creative projects or a romantic pursuit.
Aquarius: (January 20 to February 18) Mental growth and abstract thought are your focus for this month. You seek new wisdom. Communications with co-workers often lack clarity after the 12th. Later in the month, you re-evaluate your hopes and wishes. This can cause you to make a change in your direction. On the 26th, a change in your home life helps you to resolve old matters and problems.
Pisces: (February 19 to March 20) Shared assets and tax matters are your focus for this month. After the 12th, new studies involving law, philosophy and religion are of interest to you. You are forming a new perspective about life, in general. This is also a time of career expansion and achievement. Consider new opportunities and studies. On the 26th, you pay more attention to your everyday habits and communications.
Ghost StoriesBy John Gray There are a million reasons to love the Capital Region, and as the air chills and the nights grow blacker than a witch’s cat, it seems appropriate to tell you a tale or two about ghosts and goblins that roam our back roads and cemeteries at night. I’ve never seen a ghost, but something did happen to me once that I’ve never spoken about until today. We’ll get to that in a moment, but for now let me share with you a couple eerie stories I have heard while sipping hot, mulled cider by the safety of the fire.
Graceland Cemetery and The Hitchhiker They say every town has an urban legend about a ghostly hitchhiker and ours takes place on Delaware Avenue in Albany at the gates of Graceland Cemetery. As the story goes,it was a dark, stormy night (is there any other kind?) when a Clifton Park man was returning home from a friend’s house in Bethlehem. He was traveling down Delaware Avenue close to midnight when he approached Graceland Cemetery. There, standing in a long white gown in the pouring rain, was a beautiful young woman who appeared to be hitchhiking. Normally our level-headed friend would never stop for a stranger, but something seemed innocent and vulnerable about this girl and so he pulled over to offer her a lift. “You’ll catch your death of cold out there miss,” he said to her as she climbed into the front seat. She never returned his glance; instead she just gazed out the car window watching the rain run down the glass. Finally, after a moment she said, “Take me to Lark Street please.” As they drove silently through the night, he stole glances of her beautiful face. Though he wanted to speak to her, something told him to leave her be.
A few moments later he stopped at a brownstone not far from where you would find Justin’s restaurant today. As she stepped from the car, the heavy sadness thatthis girl wore like a blanketseemed to change. She seemed better.As she started up the stairs to the home he pulled away from the curb giving her one more look in the rearview mirror, but she was alreadygone.
A week went by and our friend couldn’t get the image of the beautiful young woman out of his mind. Like a stone in his shoe, it kept nagging him - what was she doing out there so late at night dressed that way? Who was she? Was she okay?When he couldn’t take it any longer,he drove back to that same home on Lark Street, knocked on the door and was greeted by a woman in her 60s with familiar eyes. He told his story of what happened theprevious Saturday night and asked if the young lady was home. The old womanspoke, “You picked her up outside Graceland Cemetery didn’t you? She wasdressed in white and it was raining. Am I correct in my assumptions, sir?” He nodded yes and felt every hair on his body stand on end as she continued. “That was my daughter. She died 20 years ago in a car accident on prom night. She’s buried at Graceland Cemetery. On nights when it rains she gets lonely for her family and comes out hoping someone will see her and pick her up. Thank you for bringing her home.”
He told himself he had must have had the wrong address or that old woman was just plain crazy. Still, on nights when it rains he thinks about driving out to Graceland Cemetery to look for the young woman in white. Then his better judgment prevails and he pulls the shades down, locks the door and tells himself over and over again it never happened. It never happened. The next time it rains, perhaps you should drive out there alone and see for yourself.
Haunted Houses Kids in every town are convinced that there is at least one house that is haunted. This area is full of them; from the ghost of a murdered man who walks the empty halls of Albany’s historic Cherry Hill mansion to the ghost of Legs Diamond who frequents a certain restaurant in West Sand Lake. Even the Old Dublin Inn on Route 9 in Halfmoon has a friendly ghost creaking around upstairs while patrons drink Guinness and sing Irish tunes down at the bar.
My favorite ghostly haunting doesn’t involve a house or restaurant, but a Catholic church in our area. One winter night, a homeless man took refuge from the cold by sleeping in the back pew of the church. At midnight an elderly priest appeared on the altar and shouted out, “Is anyone here?” The homeless man didn’t answer for fear of getting in trouble. The next night he slept in the church again, and again, precisely at midnight, the same priest appeared and shouted, “Is anyone here?”
The next day the homeless man saw a younger parish priest shoveling snow from the sidewalk and confessed where he had been sleeping the past two nights and asked who the older priest was, since he had never seen him around the church before. The young priest seemed puzzled because he was the only one assigned to that church. That night he joined the homeless man in the back pew and sure enough at midnight, the older priest appeared out of thin air on the altar. “Is anyone here?” The younger priestanswered, “Yes, we are here.” With that, the older priest conducted the entire mass in Latin and when he was finished with his final “amen,” he vanished.
Later that nightthe younger priest went through the church records and found a photo of the older priest. This was his parish 100 years ago, but he was long dead. Every night his spirit returned to celebrate mass, but only if there was someone to hear it.
Then there’s my story.
The Visit In December of 1995, I dropped by my father’s house in Troy to pick up my then one-year-old daughter. My dad was kind enough to watch her, saving us the worry and cost of daycare. It was like any other day; I asked how she ate and slept and then went out the door, telling my father I would see him at Mass a few days later on Christmas Eve. As things turned out I did see him at church that day, but it was his funeral. A heart attack in his sleep a few hours after choir practice took him from us without warning. The death of a parent is such a hard thing, especially when you don’t see it coming. Even though we were on great terms, there are so many things I would have liked to have said to him before he was gone.
A week or so after the funeral, as things slowly returned to normal, I was haunted by this wish to see him just one more time. That night when I slept, something happened. An educated person would tell you it was just a dream, but I know what a dream feels like and this was different. Someone came to me in my bedroom and told me to follow them. In a moment I was in another place and my father was sitting alone in a chair. He looked happy and healthy, but clearly he couldn’t see me. The person who brought me there said, “You wanted to see him one last time. Go ahead. You can touch him.” With that I gently stroked the top of his head as a rush of emotion raced through my entire body. I had a sense of love and closure. It lasted for only a moment and then I was sitting up in my bed.
To this day I tell myself it was a dream, but there’s a part of me that knows different. Something happened that night that I can’t explain. Hollywood portrays ghosts as sinister beings that rattle chains and chase people from their homes. If in fact they do exist, I’d like to think they are nice spirits here with a purpose - maybe to catch a ride home on arainy night, perhaps to celebrate a mass one last time and maybe, just maybe, togive a young man reassurance that his father is okay and in a much better place.
As you pick apples and watch the leaves change, I wish you a happy autumn. I hope the ghosts of your past are friendly ones who watch in delight as you fall in love, raise your children and make the mistakes that all of us mere mortals do.
And maybe on your worst days, when you are alone with your troubles, that sudden brush of air isn’t really the wind, but a friendly spirit stopping by to tell you—“You can’t see me, but I’m here with you always, watching and holding your hand and you’re going to be just fine.”
John Gray is a Fox23 News anchor and contributing writer at the Troy Record. He can be reached at johngray@fox23news.com
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