{"id":8995,"date":"2011-10-18T09:22:59","date_gmt":"2011-10-18T13:22:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.albany.com\/hr\/2011\/10\/managing-the-relationship-with-a-horrible-boss.html"},"modified":"2017-12-01T09:00:42","modified_gmt":"2017-12-01T14:00:42","slug":"managing-the-relationship-with-a-horrible-boss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.albany.com\/hr\/2011\/10\/managing-the-relationship-with-a-horrible-boss\/","title":{"rendered":"Managing The Relationship with a Horrible Boss"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I get letters all the time from people complaining about how horrible their bosses are (or were) and how they&#8217;ve managed to deal with the situation. A common theme seems to exist in all of these letters; &#8220;I work for someone who doesn&#8217;t get it, and they work for someone who refuses to see that they don&#8217;t get it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Horrible bosses don&#8217;t become that way overnight; they often will see what they can get away with and what their boss will turn a blind eye to, and then continue to calculate attacks, mistreat others, and perform poorly until the day finally comes where someone comes across their way who won&#8217;t put up with it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>As I&#8217;ve said in prior posts, sometimes the best things to do to avoid a horrible boss are to find a new job or find a way to deal with the boss until they end up leaving on their own.<\/p>\n<p>A great book worth reading on horrible bosses and how they affect the workplace is Good Boss, Bad Boss: How to Be the Best and Learn from The Worst<\/p>\n<p> In this book, Robert Sutton outlines the things you can do to learn from the worst bosses ever, and how to avoid becoming one yourself!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I get letters all the time from people complaining about how horrible their bosses are (or were) and how they&#8217;ve managed to deal with the situation. 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