You’re just lying there awake, watching the clock. In 2 hours you have to get up and go to work…
We all have nights that we toss and turn, wishing to fall back to sleep or for the night to come to an end. Counting sheep, reading, getting up to watch TV or having a snack just don’t seem to work. Thankfully, for most of us, those nights are an exception. But for some, either falling to sleep or waking in the middle of the night is a frequent, if not nightly occurrence.
Lack of sleep not only affects our level of coping with stress, but decreased sleep has been shown to cause an increase in appetite, cravings and weight.
There are several things you can do to improve your sleep quality. The following are 5 of the tips I consider most important to start with:
1. Blue light emitted from electronic devices such as iPad, cell phone, laptop, computer screen, iPod, TV and even alarm clock disturb your sleep. It suppresses your melatonin; a hormone that regulates sleep and it can take several hours for your melatonin level to rise again. So turn off all electronic devices before bed (ideally 2-3 hours, but try for at least 1 hour), do not keep near your bed or if you must, in the case of a cell phone for emergency call, turn upside down. Cover your alarm clock with a cloth and do not fall asleep watching TV.
2. We all go through several cycles of sleep each night and some of us are more sensitive to arousal during the light phases of sleep. Sleeping with a white noise machine, fan or nature sound machine can prevent those hyperarousals.
3. Caffeine is a powerful stimulant and it takes 5-7 hours to eliminate half of it from your body. So if you drink a cup of coffee at 2 in the afternoon, at 9 pm, only half is gone. Stop drinking caffeine in the morning and remember that caffeine is in iced tea, chocolate and many other foods and drinks.
4. That glass of wine or frozen margarita that you had in the evening may have relaxed you, but alcohol disrupts your sleep cycles. You may fall asleep easily, but you probably won’t sleep as deeply and you may wake up more frequently. If you’re going to have a cocktail, drink early.
5. This is the most important… have a regular routine every night. Just as we have a bedtime ritual for our children that prepares them for the transition to sleep, we benefit by having a set routine that winds down our day and prepares our mind and body for the transition from busyness of our hectic day to peaceful sleep. Routines can be as individual as we are but at least 15 minutes length is essential to enable adequate time to shut down the high-wired brain. I frequently recommend a simple brushing the teeth, writing in a gratitude journal or worry journal to release the day’s concerns and a few moments of thought about all of your accomplishments for the day. Notice, no negative thoughts at bedtime. Placing positive thoughts in our mind before sleep enhances more peaceful sleep.
If you try all of these tips and still lie awake at night, there are several other measures to try. Give me a call for a free consultation. Sleep is not a luxury. Pleasant dreams.
Thank you, Jan! I didn’t know the information about the caffeine. All I know is that I can’t drink coffee or tea in the evenings. I would add to the list not eating dinner late in the evening. I find that the later I eat, the stranger my dreams are. Also, I’ve found that if I eat a banana every morning, I fall asleep much faster. It may be the potassium in the banana but for me, it really works.
My pleasure, Julie! Eating dinner late in the evening can disrupt sleep if it’s a big dinner because your body is trying to digest the meal and digestion typically shuts down when we are sleeping. You are probably remembering your dreams more because you are not getting into the deeper sleep. I’m glad the banana works for you… we all have our little tricks and potassium is certainly an important electrolyte for healthy body functioning.
I always sleep with a fan on but have trouble when I travel or stay with a guest when I don’t have it
That can be tough Kate, when we get used to sleeping with background noise. Perhaps getting a white noise machine that simulates the background noise would be an option. They are small and portable so you can travel with them. There are also several small nature sound machines that provide similar background noise. If you have a smart phone, there are several apps, some of which are free, that play rain, wind or other continuous sound for a specific period of time to aide with falling asleep. Hope one of these suggestions was helpful.
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